"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Ll Principe

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Hey all...

Been a while since I posted.. hope you all well..

Anyway, my girlfriend is at work now and she is really stressed because she has a pile of work to do , she is coming over to my place after work..

I was thinking what ideas/activities do you guys have in order for me to de-stress and make the evening enjoyable.. Im not looking at sexual stuff cos thats a given.. Im thinking of things like getting some candles and lighting them all over my room whilst getting sum essence to make the room smell nice... ideas like this... that will put her in a relaxed mood and something thats unique/different to the mandatory DVD night on the couch...

Any ideas?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I got booze, infact we going for ****tails after her work than back to my place after... was thinking what I can do after though when we get back to my place aside from sexual things which will naturally follow later..

Some of my thoughts were:

- candles in my room to romance the evening
- some soft music in the background
-some nice essence burning to enhance the smell and put her in a romantic mood

KEY NOTE: im not trying to get her in bed, im just trying to do something "different" that I havent done with her yet that will make her think "wow, so nice" and may destress her at the same time... hope that helps..
 

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Ive had 30 odd views and only one response, guys surely you must have some ideas, Ive got 30 minutes to go before Im meeting her for some ****tails and Id like to get the necessary items before than if needed..
 

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Go to your nearest cheap store, like Walmart, Target, whatever. Get one of those "gift" boxes of womens bath stuff. Has things like bath soaps, bubble bath, and some other assorted, girlish stuff. Buy it (if you feel embarrassed, find a self-checkout lane.) When you two are home, run a nice, hot bath and pour the bubbles and whatever in there. Have her get in, give her a nice massage while shes in the bath...

Then climb in with her.

Romantic, thoughtful, and has a hint of eroticness that will make her melt and relax, all at the same time.

If you feel like insence candles, get a few french vanilla ones.
 

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Hi
You have done a good question, it’s really interesting. If you get any good reply, so please let me know. So I’ll also get some good idea.
Thanks for your future help.
:cool: :cool: :cool:
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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