"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Ll Principe

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Hey all...

Been a while since I posted.. hope you all well..

Anyway, my girlfriend is at work now and she is really stressed because she has a pile of work to do , she is coming over to my place after work..

I was thinking what ideas/activities do you guys have in order for me to de-stress and make the evening enjoyable.. Im not looking at sexual stuff cos thats a given.. Im thinking of things like getting some candles and lighting them all over my room whilst getting sum essence to make the room smell nice... ideas like this... that will put her in a relaxed mood and something thats unique/different to the mandatory DVD night on the couch...

Any ideas?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Ll Principe

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I got booze, infact we going for ****tails after her work than back to my place after... was thinking what I can do after though when we get back to my place aside from sexual things which will naturally follow later..

Some of my thoughts were:

- candles in my room to romance the evening
- some soft music in the background
-some nice essence burning to enhance the smell and put her in a romantic mood

KEY NOTE: im not trying to get her in bed, im just trying to do something "different" that I havent done with her yet that will make her think "wow, so nice" and may destress her at the same time... hope that helps..
 

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Ive had 30 odd views and only one response, guys surely you must have some ideas, Ive got 30 minutes to go before Im meeting her for some ****tails and Id like to get the necessary items before than if needed..
 

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Go to your nearest cheap store, like Walmart, Target, whatever. Get one of those "gift" boxes of womens bath stuff. Has things like bath soaps, bubble bath, and some other assorted, girlish stuff. Buy it (if you feel embarrassed, find a self-checkout lane.) When you two are home, run a nice, hot bath and pour the bubbles and whatever in there. Have her get in, give her a nice massage while shes in the bath...

Then climb in with her.

Romantic, thoughtful, and has a hint of eroticness that will make her melt and relax, all at the same time.

If you feel like insence candles, get a few french vanilla ones.
 

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Hi
You have done a good question, it’s really interesting. If you get any good reply, so please let me know. So I’ll also get some good idea.
Thanks for your future help.
:cool: :cool: :cool:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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