Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

Girlfriend really distant over text, and not intrested in sex as much?

Thread starter KaiLowRen
Start date Dec 18, 2015

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Master Don Juan

Dec 20, 2015

El Payaso said:
If after a while, you feel you want to end things. Go ahead and end it with her formally. You'll be able to make a clean break.

That way she can't turn around and accuse you of cheating because you were "technically" still in a relationship with her even though she was ignoring you the whole time.

Why would he do something because he cares what she will accuse him of? that goes against the entire concept we're trying to build. At this point she shouldn't matter to him.

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.