"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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What's up?! I have another question for you all. Well, apparently, I have a girlfriend (or something between those lines...according to her we are "dating"). The thing is, I don't know how to go about it. We go to different schools and we don't see each other that often. My question is, how often should I contact her (call/txt)? Should I text her good night and stuff?
Thanks in advance!
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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she is not your girlfriend,
you guys are just "dating" she has already labeled the relationship.
don't worry about that, NEVER talk about where you stand in the relationship, let her be the one who will call you her boyfriend, first.

break that rule and you will be in trouble.

anyway, just follow the same DJ rules that apply to any other girl you are just beggining to date or getting to know... text/ call every now and then, then back off and let her reply and initiate texts so that she can miss you...

I personally call them, if they don't answer I wait for a reply and don't call back, or I wait for them to call me at least 2 or three times before I make the phone call.

then get on with your life doing your own stuff until she calls you back, always have a life of your own, don't stay around at home waiting for that phone to ring, that's a huge mistake.

remember rule number 2:
ALWAYS GIVE HER THE GIFT OF MISSING YOU.
it is a gift for women

guaranteed.
 
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pipe007, thank you so much for your advice! to be honest with you, i all ready fumbled (after a few weeks of not knowing what we were, I asked her what was up with us...), but I will just have to go along with it now.
thanks again!!
 
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