Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Girlfriend problems

ArturoGatti

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Hey fellas,

Just a quick question, and this is a first post! Although a few friend of mine has been using the board for a long time now.

I have been with my girlfriend for 2 months, and just recently we were at a party, I was angry with her for a stupid little reason, but anyways to cut a long story short, she got a message today off a guy saying "I saw you at "Rachels" party the other night, and your boyfriend was being a ****head to you, if you want to fukc ring me back". Anyways she told me about it, and said she is going to try and ring him to find out who he is and tell me. I was pissed off at the time, and said I wanted to crack him! Do you guys think it is better to just leave it and laugh it off, just say, what a looser guy, or to get angry and show her I am a man who doesnt take sh*t?

Thanks for the advice guys.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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MacDiddy

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The ultimate thing to do is to play him at his own game...

use your GF and Set something up... I'd keep it via text for the time being in order to not give any hint that you are playing him

Start of subtle and get her to build some rapport and sympathy from him... Then set something up and punk him!!
 

EFFORT

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Tell her to go fucck him so she can really see how good you are.


My natural friend will use that a lot with his gf's. He'll encourage them to go be with other guys so they can see how good he really is. This makes them want him even more.
 

chance

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bet he doesn't look so cool when the girl actually does go fuk the guy.
 

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Wait! I don't like the sound of this, this is bad man, really bad. Do everything yo ass can to keep this perv away from yo chick. A friend of mine once told a chick the exact words and yeah, yu guessed it, he got laid.

Don't panic though, coz i know I would, i've seen this before, act as if nuthin's wrong. and if yu haven't seriously screwed yo chick, it's about time yu have man.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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lavalamp

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set him up, play him a game =) tell your gf to act like she's interested then you go and meet that as*hole and while at it beat him up good
 
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