"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Well I've had a GF for about almost a month now. I'm having dozens of problems though. First off, we NEVER hang out. The only time I actually did something with her was go to the movies. Now, she says she's grounded or something and isn't allowed to do anything. Yeah I've kissed her, but I haven't in over 2 weeks.
I still think she's playing games with me. A couple of days ago she said she was gonna give me one more shot. I didn't give it any thought though, I'm not gonna go chasing around asking what it is. I see her for about a minute or so after school since I have to get a ride home everyday. She gets pissed off if I don't see her, but when I do, she's always with her best friend and has this b*tch shield up.

Now the REAL problem I'm having is that SHE told me that this guy who used to like her, now likes her again and her best friend asked what I was going to do about it. I told her I don't care about the guy right now and she just walked away from me. I'm not sure what to think now. Is she still testing me or something? Is she still acting like she's available? I COULD tell her brother, because if he figured anything out, he would murder the guy. Not to mention he would screw her over badly as well.
Any ideas on what I can do with this? I hate posting here, and I really hope it didn't have to come to this. I feel like such a chump right now.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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ObieJuan

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She's not your girlfriend anymore and is dropping hints to you but you don't get it. These games will continue as long as you let them or until her new BF threatens to kick your @ss. Drop her like a bad habit- break all contact...either that or continue and cause yourself more undue worry and pain. Either way, good luck.
 
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Yea dude dont worry about it. If you get too worried, straight out ask her what is happening, or just dump her.
 
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