Girlfriend offers to reschedule date twice leading up to it, both times suggesting...

[bensimsJYG]

Girlfriend offers to reschedule date twice leading up to it, both times suggesting a morning/afternoon date than a night one.

Been dating this girl since February, took her virginity (after a while of her being hesitant. She grew up in a very sheltered and strict household. i.e. her parents only dated and had sex with her other their whole lives, her parents told her to not have sex, etc.). We're both 18 and going to college in the Fall at colleges far away from each other.

I originally texted her on Sunday night setting up a date to get dinner on Monday night. She said that her and her friends had this yearbook thing planned where they all sign each other's yearbooks that night (this is true) and offered to hang out during the day. I said it was no problem, we could just go tuesday night instead. She was ok with this. Now last night, she texts me "Can I be a terrible person and ask you if we can do something Wednesday morning/afternoon instead? I'm going to the city tomorrow and apparently we might not be back till pretty late. I'm sorryyy " I was asleep already so I didn't respond, and I'm not sure what to respond. I definitely want a night date so we can sex, and I'm not ok with how she keeps rescheduling/flaking on it. I'm busy all day Wednesday too so I couldn't even hang out then. How should I respond to this? I was considering either just not responding or saying I was busy that day with no intent to schedule a new date. Thanks

Also, we've only had sex a couple of times. The first time she was very nervous about it. Last Friday, we were supposed to hang out at night but she couldn't get out of a family dinner. I told her to come over after it, so she came to my house at 11:10 that night. We talked for 10 minutes, ****ed for 50, and talked for another 20 minutes before she had to leave because her parents said to be home by 12:30 (she left late). Either she lost so much interest that she doesn't want to have sex, or she doesn't want me to think of her as just a booty call/ **** toy

 

[pyros]

I dont see such a big problem. She rescheduled twice? well, she could have legitimate reasons, dont over-think it.

Now, if she keeps doing this, and time goes by and you do not have sex with her in a week or a bit more...then it will become an issue.

I think she doesnt wanto you to treat her as a sex toy as you suggested, so just have fun with her, be nice, wait a bit more...and see if sex occurs.

 

[stevo]

Hahaha you already took her virginity, sit back and ask the beech to go make you a sandwich.

Relax dude, for a girl that age, the best time to fcuk her is during the day.

Her parents are not suspecting, she can be out for hours and she can be all yours the whole time she's with you.

Stop asking her to come over at night, do morning/afternoon, her mind isnt racing about going home on time, no rush, no hurry.