Hey guys,
I'm 22 and my girlfriend is too.
The other night my girlfriend went out with a few university people from her class to celebrate the end of the semester. This was at around 6pm.
I didn't hear from her the whole night as apparently her phone had run out of battery. Even her mother called me at around 11pm asking if I had heard from her. Anyway, she got home to her home at around 12:30am. I usually get a call at night before she goes to bed. Not that night.
I met her on Saturday with her best friend and we went out to dinner and it was fine. No problems.
I met her on Sunday and she was very lovey dovey trying to be a good girlfriend and even saying "I'm the perfect girlfriend, aren't I?".
Monday I didn't really hear from her so I went onto her Facebook (yes, I snooped, who cares) and saw she had the following conversation with her best friend.
I also inspected her Facebook further and discovered that our relationship status has been hidden so that only I can see it. I don't think it was like this recently.
What do you guys think is going on here? She talks about the "other guy" and "pushing it to the back" of her mind - but friend says "its not like it was like cheating".
What do you guys think about this situation. It does look likely I will have to ditch her (of course) but I want some thoughts prior to confronting her about what this could be.
Thanks
I'm 22 and my girlfriend is too.
The other night my girlfriend went out with a few university people from her class to celebrate the end of the semester. This was at around 6pm.
I didn't hear from her the whole night as apparently her phone had run out of battery. Even her mother called me at around 11pm asking if I had heard from her. Anyway, she got home to her home at around 12:30am. I usually get a call at night before she goes to bed. Not that night.
I met her on Saturday with her best friend and we went out to dinner and it was fine. No problems.
I met her on Sunday and she was very lovey dovey trying to be a good girlfriend and even saying "I'm the perfect girlfriend, aren't I?".
Monday I didn't really hear from her so I went onto her Facebook (yes, I snooped, who cares) and saw she had the following conversation with her best friend.
And that is pretty much the conversation.Best Friend of GF:
Hey
Girlfriend:
hey
Best Friend of GF:
How r things with spax
And how r u feeling about that guy
Girlfriend:
yeh good how about you snd ur bf?
im jst pushing that to the back of my mnid it never happened
***********LATER IN THE DAY**********************
Girlfriend:
hey how r u
Best Friend of GF:
I'm okayy.
When do u plan to tell spax?
Girlfriend:
i dont know if i can
or if i even should
what do u think?
Best Friend of GF:
I'm a bit worried about how he will reacts
Girlfriend:
was it even bad what i did or have i overhyped it?
Best Friend of GF:
He might freak oute
I don't know how he will take it. I don't think its that bad
Not good or something to repeat
But I don't think it was like cheating or anything
Girlfriend:
but im wondering on a deeper lever. is it a sign that our relationship is pretty bad
you know its weird because i feel like at the bieggining someone mentioned something about my boyfriend
and i said "wtf my boyfriend pfft haha
but i think the way i actually said it made it sound like i didnt have a boyfriend!
Best Friend of GF:
Lol
Girlfriend:
does that make any sense?
Best Friend of GF:
Yes
Stop overanalysing
Girlfriend:
ok ill shut up
do u ever feel like being in a long term relationship is too much pressure?
I also inspected her Facebook further and discovered that our relationship status has been hidden so that only I can see it. I don't think it was like this recently.
What do you guys think is going on here? She talks about the "other guy" and "pushing it to the back" of her mind - but friend says "its not like it was like cheating".
What do you guys think about this situation. It does look likely I will have to ditch her (of course) but I want some thoughts prior to confronting her about what this could be.
Thanks