Girlfriend needs Space???...

[Slick101]

Opinions and Long Story SHORT!!

1 year 4 months...

Christmas she found out I cheated on her months ago through a text... I did back in Feb. (she checked my phone that I wanted to see that girl again)

Big fight Physical and Verbal...

She really loved me and trusted me and so Do I... Put I fvcked up I know,,,

Then She said she cant be with me no more.... on christmas even tho she loves me.... I told her Ill fix it... she didnt believe me... Then about couple of days later I call her and tell her Yea I cant be with you... your right....

THAT HIT HER!!! so she said that she forgave me and wants to be with me...

January now.... She says she needs space to think things over... she still talks to me but she is getting over her feeling about what happ and it might takes weeks or years and I should wait...

WTF should I say or do???

Not call her...

OPINIONS

 

[WC2]

Look at the facts.. after you told her you AGREED with her about you two not being right for each other, she came back.

Why?

Because she couldn't get the validation from you. You played your cards right by letting her know that you want her but you don't NEED her.

Play that same hand, because this should be your mindset anyways. Tell her she can take her space if she wants, but you're on your way.

She's trying to go for the powerplay by gaining your remorse and using it to move on to the next guy. Don't give that sh!t to her.

Don't contact her till she contacts you. If she decides to contact you, make sure she earns this sh!t back because she's the one who asked for a break, not you!

Don't accept her back until she's earned it.

 

[Scars]

You did good by acting unphased by everything, but it seemed like as soon as she forgave you that you jumped the gun back into everything. It's all just a validation game as WC2 said. If she wants a break then give her one, just don't accept her so quickly, only when you feel she has earned it.

 

[Slick101]

Thanks guys.... Now she got into an argument with me when I told her I want to go to a Broadway show on Valentines Day...

I told her go fvck yourself after 10 min of arguing and hung up the phone.....

Turned my phone off so she wont reach me.... this girl pisses me off guys.... Ive been with her too long to end it like this..... I hate this feelinggg

 

[Slick101]

Now she keeps bringing up that I cheated on her.... AFTER SOO MANY TIMES WE DISCUSSED THIS... THIS TOPIC KEEPS COMING UP!!... HOW DO I GO ABOUT THIS?

 

[theunflushables]

Ignore her. Cut out ALL contact.

 

[Dannyrt34]

The moral to this story is: If you really love the person you're with, don't cheat.

The truth is, you brought this upon yourself. You're fvcked, cheating isn't something that she's just going to forget about. Of course she'll keep bringing it up.

 

[ontopfrombehind]

Stay strong.

If she's enough of a sucker to take you back after finding out you cheated (and were probably going to cheat again with the same woman), she'll be contacting you before too long.

Doesn't sound like it is bound to work in the long run with you two, but you may just get the last laugh in this one. It's just your pride kicking in. If she DOESN'T contact you, leave her be. There are others, this I know.