It's not that she has someone else. but the things she does it urks me. she moved like a year ago, about an hour drive, so i expect things to be different. before we used to have sex everyday, now i'll be lucky to get it once every one or two weeks when she comes over. no more oral from her for a few months now. if it is, it's out of pitty. she still calls me everday once or twice,but that doesn't do anything for me. we talk for about 5 minutes. i don't know why, not having sex frustrates me. she comes over every one or 2 weeks, and when she does she says she too tired to "do anything"(have sex), but she up and ready to go out and party, when i ask her she wants to go out. she doesn't get on top anymore, and she's waiting for me to finish. she doesn't seem to be intersted anymore. it's driving me nuts. i haven't picked up my phone for 2 days now, since she left back home. what's the best route to get thing rolling again.
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For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
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Girlfriend losing interested....in sex and other things
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