"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Girlfriend left purse in my car.

Phat

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I know i've seen something a bout girls something of theres at there boyfriends house or car.. But anyone know wat this means? I have an idea on wat it means.. i just wanna make sure.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Stop overthinking:

You have two choices

1. She actually forgot it: Probably thinks somebody stole her purse. Tell her you found it, don't just give it to her. (reduces creepy stalker factor)

2. Left it on purpose: Wants to meet you more. Tell her you have it, but don't give it to her.

Either way, tell her first. Don't just hand it over. Try to arrange a meeting if she gives IOI's

-Damian
 

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i already told her... yeh i was over thinking .
 
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