Girlfriend Leaving For College

[we all eat food]

I met this awesome girl this summer, and weve been going out since the beggining of August. Shes leaving for school on the 3rd of September, so until then, were going out, but after that, we dont know what to do shes going to school upstate. So when she leaves, should I just forget about her, because she will prob meet other guys in college and forget about me, or should we have like an open relationship, were like we can be friend with benefits when we see each other etc.

 

[itishe]

Talk to her about it on the phone.

I did it with my girl who just left for college (I'm 16 by the way).

We decided that we wouldn't fool around with other people and we'd remain faithful. We'll see how it goes, but I have faith in her.

 

[BrokenLeftWing]

dont call her while she is gone. let her call you.say bye to her and while she is gone bang other girls. When she comes back then bang her

 

[itishe]

With an attitude like that how do you ever expect women to remain faithful to us?

 

[KillaCam]

I'll pretend BrokenLeftWing doesn't exist.

Now, dude, we can't give you answers to those questions. Only you know what you want. Talk to her about it, discuss whether both of you can remain faithful if you want to be together. Discuss whether splitting is the right option. Discuss whether you 2 have a possible future.

We can't decide or recommend anything. You need to work out what you want, then talk to her about it.

 

[Patrick124]

I'm a senior, my girl[now ex] left for college last night. she cried, i shed a few, she wants to stay together["you're the best boyfriend I've ever had"] but I cant do it, i love the girl, but I cant go though the pain of never seeing her, always wondering what shes doing and all that.
plus its senior year..time to go to work on some girls man. lol.
but i mena, fi you want to stay with her, just say "when you're back in town, its wealleatfood-and-___ time." that way you can game other girls, get some ass, and get more ass when shes in town.

 

[B-Lemond]

With the exception of BrokenWing, people are starting to give good advice.

What it all comes down to is how you feel!
Don't let others make decisions for you. It is YOUR sex drive and YOUR sex life. Take the advice as a grain of salt, because the final decision is up to you.

I remember when I made this post about a year ago, everyone told me to dump her. But, the way I felt was that I wanted to be with her. And so, we stayed faithful to eachother all throughout the school year.

If I had listened to everyone else, I would have missed out on a wonderful relationship.

The decision is up to you. Do as you want, as long as the decision is yours and it makes you fell GOOD!