"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Girlfriend kissed another guy...then apologized

Nexus Polaris

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Having female friends has done nothing but re-affirm the fact that they cannot be trusted not to fück around on you even if they have an awesome guy at home.

I've watched it from a third party perspective over and over again. Really, the Bible Belt's way is the only way to truly not get owned in dealing with women.

It's sad, too, because I used to really enjoy that intoxicating feeling of romantic love. But it's a masochistic sham. I really wonder if humans were designed to be monogamous by nature, or if it's just something we've been programmed to be by society.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Bible_Belt said:
Yes!

And to the original poster, my weekend went just like yours, except I was the guy who was with someone's gf. You really don't believe that 'hold hands' story, right?

Aren't you sick of being the wuss bag borefriend who keeps getting cheated on? I sure as hell was. So now instead of being in your AFC shoes, I'm that guy who is breaking up your weak ass relationships by banging your gfs, Last night I was rolling with laughter about how this girl was putting a guilt trip on her borefriend for not trusting her, after she had just been making out with me. Then after she and I fvcked all night, he spent today begging her forgiveness for their little fight. Who would you rather be in a situation like this - the afc borefriend or the emotionally-detached dj? He's torn up over his future with this girl, and I could care less. When you react to her pulling away and seeking attention from other people in any way other than doing the exact same thing yourself in return, then you become afc, and it's game over. You lose. Don't be that guy.
lol is all i can say to this reply.. then when you bang a chick of some crazed ass dude.. sorta like i did who he actually said he'd kill me, her AND her roomate if he see's me again. you'll come to find pu$$y just ain't worth your life.

how's that for a borefriend? borefriends can become homicidal maniacs.. I've had my arm broken by a baseball bat in highschool over this type of shyt.. its not worth it.. but play on player (ya fuggin tool)
 

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I don't post many flames on sosuave, but since you called me a 'tool'

What a fvcking pvssy you are! What did you do when that guy threatened to kill you? Piss yourself? I would have called him on that bvlls!t and we would have thrown down right there. Btw, her bf didn't say jack sh!t to me, because he could tell that I didn't give a holy fvck about being scared of him. He's even bigger than me! But he's a pvssy, and that's all that matters.

And you get my honest condolences for the broken arm, but there was more going on there to blame than fvcking some other guy's girl. If someone ever threatens you, then you have to jump all over that sh!t right away and never let it even get to baseball bats.

The irony is that when you have the I-don't-give-a-fvck attitude, the other guy will see in it your eyes, and when he sees that you're not scared, it's game over for him. Then you're the 'crazed-ass dude' that he is scared of.

Don't ever let anyone threaten or intimidate you. That's my point with all of this.

Peace.
 

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Heres what you should do. Ass fvck the hell out of her with no condom or lube for a good 45 seconds - as long as she can stand it. Make it hurt, and then when she asks you to stop, this is where you win...say "ok babe" and switch to her vag...congrats, you just gave her a yeast infection.

Next step, tell her your going to clean up, piss, whatever. Go to the bathroom, grab your condom(buy the thickest one you can) grab your cleverly placed tube of bengay and rub that cream all over the outside of the condom after it is on your man pole. Fvck her as hard as you can, soon she will start to scream and tell u to stop. "ok baby" grab your clothes, dont put them on, make sure you have your keys ready in your hand and then leave, intentionally walk by her parents, throw the used condom at them, and run out the door.
 

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I still vividly recall the day the AFC in me died.
My gf at the time revealed to me that she cheated on me with some dude that pretty much fvcked her entire group of friends. Normally, I would've lost it, but instead, I just "meh'd" her and walked away.

She eventually found out that I was sleeping with her sister, who was hotter by alot but was unfortunate that I was dating her older sister already. But by spinning the plates like that, I was able to not care, which kept her(my ex) as a booty call until I moved out of the area.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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After reading this thread, it makes me think that parents aren't teaching their kids enough about the real world.
 

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ahhh there are some bets i love to lose. hopefully you will follow through and do the right thing as has been suggested. i bet 200 bucks on John Howard winning the Australian federal election but if he had, that 200 bucks would have been spent on booze to drown my tears in.
 

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mintxx said:
ahhh there are some bets i love to lose. hopefully you will follow through and do the right thing as has been suggested. i bet 200 bucks on John Howard winning the Australian federal election but if he had, that 200 bucks would have been spent on booze to drown my tears in.
haha, It was a good day.
 
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