"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Girlfriend is pregnant... It's turning me AFC...

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Oh ****!! Scorched! old buddy old pal.. Damn i cant believe it. I read the thread and looked at the poster and i couldnt believe it was you....

Anyways man congrats on ur baby..take good care of him/her aight.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Is there some kind of gay a$s law that says only women get to keep the child?

It's called "maternal preference" and it's supposed to be unconstitutional gender discrimination. Law schools teach that there is no preference given to either gender, but we all know that's not true.
 

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since penkitten is a girl...i wonder if shes hot?? remember that other girl Wyldfire?? wheres she? i wonder if shes hot too....how about you guys?
 

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i too have wondered if penkitten is hot. Except i think she's a little old for me. And she's married.
 

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Bible_Belt said:
Is there some kind of gay a$s law that says only women get to keep the child?

It's called "maternal preference" and it's supposed to be unconstitutional gender discrimination. Law schools teach that there is no preference given to either gender, but we all know that's not true.
yeah man..our judicial system is effed up!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Obsidian said:
i too have wondered if penkitten is hot. Except i think she's a little old for me. And she's married.
im 30 not dead!!!:trouble:
 

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This guy was irresponsible enough to get a girl pregnant, and now he thinks that he should stop asking her if she wants WATER at the gas station?

Oh my god. You guys realize that the advice you give to him in this thread could **** up lives.
 

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I"m dating a woman older than Penkitten by a year and she's smokin.. 30 isn't the cutoff age... if you take care of yourself, which msot women don't do, women can be right alot longer than you think

the problem is very few people take care of them selves anymore and we have a false pereception of the declining age of looks is.

I've had, more than one guy, ask me to hook them up with my older sister.. of course I don't have an older sister.. that's my mom. who doesn't look a day over 32-33 (43 on the 31st of this month) because she works out 5 days a week. i wish she would take my sister with her.. she's 7 and she's 80 pounds :(... they don't know how to say no to her.. I ate more than she did growing up but I never stayed home.. I was outside the second school was out playig sports and playing hide and seek with young b!tches. it's sad.. but I digress. At her age I think I might have been 60 pounds and was as skinny as could be.
 

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so do you have any pics penkitten?? i wonder why you would be on a site like this...is your husband afc?
 

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uh.. her husband is one of the founding members of this site...very very much DJ.. one of the only guys I actually listen to
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I hope you realize how delicate a childs life is.

I have a 13 month old son..who sits by the bathroom door when his mom is in there and cries.


when I go outside to work or get something from my car..he goes to the door and waits for me...sometimes up to a half an hour.

you need to really know if you and this woman will work out..and if not..you both need to be adults and work together to give the child the best possible environment you can.

if you get every other weekend when he is just a baby and a toddler..it will be hard for him to even trust you or know you.

remember that
 

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Get a lawyer dude. Protect yourself and your cash. :trouble:

I think you can get out of paying child support somehow. You just have to sign something saying you will not attempt to contact the child. You have to forfeit your parental rigths.

Try to convince the ***** to get an abortion. Abortions save lives (yours) and more importantly...they save you money.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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frivolous said:
I have a 13 month old son..who sits by the bathroom door when his mom is in there and cries.


when I go outside to work or get something from my car..he goes to the door and waits for me...sometimes up to a half an hour.
whoa man...I know this kid's only a year old, but you need to be careful not to raise this guy to be a pvssy. He'll wind up like the guys who have to come to this site...or WORSE.
 

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You can sue for custody if you can prove you can provide a better life for the child than she can. My cousin won costody of his two girls and now Mommy has to come and ask HIM if it's okay if she sees the girls on weekends.

You must make sure the child is yours. You must have a DNA test!
Make NOOOOOOO promises till you have that paper in hand. If she gets b!tchy and refuses to give you a test, you can go to the courts and DEMAND a DNA test. They will FORCE her to do it. Call a lawyer, he can tell you exactly what you're in for.

Good luck Dude, you're going to need it.
 

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Ken785 said:
so do you have any pics penkitten?? i wonder why you would be on a site like this...is your husband afc?
yes i have some pics around here somewhere, i stumbled in here long ago and never left, no he isnt afc, and yes i met him here:)
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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