Girlfriend is insistent on buying me a Christmas present

[El Payaso]

I got her a Christmas present this week because she will be out of state seeing family. Now she is insistent on buying me one even though I've told her I don't want one.

She asked for my house address but I insisted she doesn't. Now she's upset I won't let her buy a present for me. Lol. How can you get mad because I don't want a present. Women...

 

[Armourhead]

What do you do for hobbies or fun? Have her pay for something in regards to that.

Worst case scenario it'll save you money in the short term.

 

[amazingswayze]

Let'r

 

[Julian]

sounds stupid (on your part)

 

[Fireballs]

Just let her buy one..

 

[Konada]

Go NC on this one, by letting her get you a present you are submitting your frame to her and serving your balls on a platter.

If you accept this, believe me while you're receiving gifts she's taking it in the a$$ from her milk man.

 

[grayclif]

Go NC on this one, by letting her get you a present you are submitting your frame to her and serving your balls on a platter.

If you accept this, believe me while you're receiving gifts she's taking it in the a$$ from her milk man.

How you figure exactly, Konada?



3 months membership to your gym (A year if you go to planet fitness). Give her the address. Later when you dump her tell her your going to the gym.

 

[playa99]

Why don't you want a Christmas present?

 

[parkthebus]

I get you probably have a logical reason behind it. But you gotta let woman do woman things.

 

[RangerMIke]

Accept the gift and be gracious.

 

[NSX-R]

Guys wtf is wrong with you. If she wants to buy him a present then where's the problem? That later she might request a present aswell?
Don't buy her anything anymore then.

Let her do whatever she wants, you're always the winner in the end.

 

[Misrah]

Holy balls... some grade A bull**** in here.

Why are so many posters here salty and dimwitted?

 

[El Payaso]

Why don't you want a Christmas present?

We never really grew up celebrating Christmas with presents and it's just something I've never done. I only got a present for her because she asked for one. I don't need anything and I just see it as a waste of time and money. No offense to those that celebrate Christmas like that.

 

[blind_one]

Go NC on this one, by letting her get you a present you are submitting your frame to her and serving your balls on a platter.

If you accept this, believe me while you're receiving gifts she's taking it in the a$$ from her milk man.

I second this notion you should next her immediately before she can damage your life .

Let her invest, its better this way since she will justify gifting you as a sence that you are worth it ( of course you are). If it bothers you, oh well.

 

[Yewki]

Doesn't matter if it's Christmas or the middle of July, she owes you one and is trying to pay you back. You should be thankful she is high enough quality to want to do that.

The only suspicious thing here is that you bought her a gift with no expectation of getting anything in return. Kind of sends a, "You're more important than me" vibe.

 

[logicallefty]

I see no problem with receiving gifts from a woman or giving one to a woman who has earned it. My thing is keep the two independent of each other. In other words if a woman buys me a gift that doesn't necessarily mean I buy her one. Or if I buy her one I don't expect one in return.

 

[Yewki]

I see no problem with receiving gifts from a woman or giving one to a woman who has earned it. My thing is keep the two independent of each other. In other words if a woman buys me a gift that doesn't necessarily mean I buy her one. Or if I buy her one I don't expect one in return.

The OP explained he got her a gift because,

I got her a Christmas present this week because she will be out of state seeing family

So sounds like she didn't do anything and it's a random Christmas gift. In which case why would he reject a gift in return? I don't get it

 

[parkthebus]

So sounds like she didn't do anything and it's a random Christmas gift. In which case why would he reject a gift in return? I don't get it

Man brain doesn't like being given thing. It's a power play.

 

[AriMamba]

Don Juan on Sosuave be like...

Lol I swear they always find a way to give the same generic answer.

Go NC on this one, by letting her get you a present you are submitting your frame to her and serving your balls on a platter.

If you accept this, believe me while you're receiving gifts she's taking it in the a$$ from her milk man.

 

[Huffman]

You could just make the issue disappear by accepting it but not commenting much on it. Which in turn is slightly rude so it's a good power play on your part.

Maybe she just was raised well and feels guilty for not reciprocating.

But you can also follow Sosuave posters' advice, dump her, stop masturbating and start meditating in a cave.