Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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BeDJ

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She is desperately seeking attention from you, interesting how no contact works. Don't give her that attention, let her soak up these feelings of "abandonment," not to get revenge per se, but more punishment. You currently control the situation, the relationship, as it should be. You need to MAINTAIN it. Do not back down.

When you contact her again in a few days, be indifferent and aloof. Make HER work for the relationship and don't go back to your old ways.

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You contacted her and didn't hear what you want to hear because you broke No Contact. Move on and choke this up to the female imperative. Live and learn from this experience
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I broke NC.......to break up with her! I can't see her problems ever fixing themselves, actually since today i haven't given a **** about her maybe im cold i don't know but she has pissed me off so much in past that i just don't give a **** now.
 
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wow this is depressing, this guys gf lost interest in him cause he tried to be decent guy and take care of her.
 
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