Girlfriend ignoring messages / acting distant

[pyros]

I do think you're over-thinking what is going on and you're confused.

I think she is just really pissed cause she doesnt like to work THAT MUCH so is unhappy. She told you "I'm misserable", and she kind of is. She probably is pretty tired everyday you dumbass.
And with your childiss (you want to keep texting the whole day) you're just annoying her more and making her even more misserable showing zero understanding.

The only thing you should do is give her damn space. YOU CANNOT TEXT ALL DAY CAUSE:

1- Its boring.
2- If she's working so many hours she should not be paying attention to her cell-phone.

You used to text all damn day before? so what? the situation is different now.

Anyway I sense that both of you would like to break up, so it is a matter of time.

P.S.

I really like that almost everybody here dates nothing less than HB9's (like your female friend right?) LMAO...:crackup:

 

[Confusedneedhelp]

I do think you're over-thinking what is going on and you're confused.

I think she is just really pissed cause she doesnt like to work THAT MUCH so is unhappy. She told you "I'm misserable", and she kind of is. She probably is pretty tired everyday you dumbass.
And with your childiss (you want to keep texting the whole day) you're just annoying her more and making her even more misserable showing zero understanding.

The only thing you should do is give her damn space. YOU CANNOT TEXT ALL DAY CAUSE:

1- Its boring.
2- If she's working so many hours she should not be paying attention to her cell-phone.

You used to text all damn day before? so what? the situation is different now.

Anyway I sense that both of you would like to break up, so it is a matter of time.

P.S.

I really like that almost everybody here dates nothing less than HB9's (like your female friend right?) LMAO...:crackup:

I don't txt her all day now, but have been guilty have sending multiple messages one after another.

I think I am possibly overthinking, to a certain degree. But I don't deserve to be cursed at for just wanting to talk, maybe the time wasn't right but still.

Which is why I said I don't want to use the term break up per se. More of a giving us BOTH space until her priorities are in check.

Also, my gf is an 8.5 without makeup, a 9 with makeup ready etc. She was offered a modeling contract by a mid level company which she denied because it required traveling. She has perfect beasts to ass proportions, slim body and waist. She's light skinned, brown hair, and around 5'6.

Female friend is smoking hot a 9 all around. I would post pictures if it weren't for the fear of them being spread or misused.

Then again ,looks are subjective.

 

[No.Danny]

I don't txt her all day now, but have been guilty have sending multiple messages one after another.

I think I am possibly overthinking, to a certain degree. But I don't deserve to be cursed at for just wanting to talk, maybe the time wasn't right but still.

Which is why I said I don't want to use the term break up per se. More of a giving us BOTH space until her priorities are in check.

Also, my gf is an 8.5 without makeup, a 9 with makeup ready etc. She was offered a modeling contract by a mid level company which she denied because it required traveling. She has perfect beasts to ass proportions, slim body and waist. She's light skinned, brown hair, and around 5'6.

Female friend is smoking hot a 9 all around. I would post pictures if it weren't for the fear of them being spread or misused.

Then again ,looks are subjective.

Right and my pet unicorn is a 10/10.

Anyways I think you need to REEVALUATE YOURSELF. Not the girl but you, because the way you act is child-like, desperate and needy. I don't care if this was your mom for **** sakes. Put yourself in HER shoes. If a girl acted like this towards me the restraining order would be FOR SURE. I would like to ask what you do when she's not around or texting you?

 

[nzsnowman]

I already explained that. 200 messages were from me, 300 from her. Total 500.

Of those, many were small messages like hey, ?, brb, etc.



They were done while sitting home, train, car (waiting on lights, traffic), or free time at work or college.

I am a security analyst consultant, so my job is office work. I have time sometimes.

When I had oneitis I had no job, in retrospect even the (roughly) 30 messages I sent per day was excessive. Over-analysing text messages is a fools game, trust me.

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

Well keep us posted OP. This is quite interesting. I myself would like to see how this ends because I would like to learn from it as I myself have not been in a situation like this before. Which is why you haven't heard my input on any of this.

However, I would like to say this: she might not understand the importance of the history between you two, but YOU do. Out of the 3 years you have been together, this is the first of big issues (which imo isn't bad). So you know her and the situation here better than anyone else. Trust your gut instinct, not what some so-called 'advice' a random dude you have never met before has told you to do. Think about this, don't OVER-think it. There is a difference. One is logical and rational, the other is emotional and irrational.

And above all, stay strong. As a man, you HAVE to be strong. You HAVE to be tough. And you need to be able to withstand pain without letting it hurt you.

Best of luck to you bro.

- The king.

 

[Blusher]

Funny how that "gut feeling" tells you all you need to know. It's like you know before you actually know.

hindsight is always 20/20