"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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the day b4 yesterday i was talking to my GF over the phone and we had a nice peaceful chat...somehow romantic too...and i told her im calling her the next day to c how was her exam...any i called her after the exam but she left me on the waiting and didnt answer...after that i called again there was no waiting but she didnt also answer so i sent her a message"i callled u to know how were ur exams...thanks for the waiting and not answering...have fun 2day :)" and till the end of the day she didnt send me any message or call...although i saw her online on msn messenger but i didnt start a convo and neither did she...she just forwaded one of those fun emails 2 me(nothing to mention..lol)...so playas what going in that girl's head and how can i deal with this situation.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Sorry kid - she is not your girlfriend!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

G/f's don't ignore their man unless they are on other men's jocks!!!! Sorry to break the news to you but your girl is disrespecting you because she feels that she has nothing to lose since you two are no longer "an item" as they say!!!
 
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how long have you been dating? what did you say during the romantic chat?
 
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She is disrespecting you here.

Get on it and ask her about it, but don't make the mistake I did w/ my ex-gf and act worked up. Just mention it...let her know that you noticed it, and make sure you are in control.

If this kinda stuff keeps happening though, figure out what the hell is wrong, or just get out period.
 
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we've been dating for about 7 months now...w havent been talking lately alot ...so that night we were romantic
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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listen here kid, say absolutely nothing about this!!!! Do you hear me?? Well, I know you don't hear me in the literal sense but do you hear me in the figurative realm?

She has made up her mind to move beyond the scope of "you" and she ignores your calls and pleas!!!!

Do not call her!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Is that enough exclamation points for you kid????

I said - do not call her!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

When you say "romantic" do you mean "sex" - if so, then she is a hor and is most likely on an another man's jock based on her sudden disinterest in you - a man!!!!!!
 
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