"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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the day b4 yesterday i was talking to my GF over the phone and we had a nice peaceful chat...somehow romantic too...and i told her im calling her the next day to c how was her exam...any i called her after the exam but she left me on the waiting and didnt answer...after that i called again there was no waiting but she didnt also answer so i sent her a message"i callled u to know how were ur exams...thanks for the waiting and not answering...have fun 2day :)" and till the end of the day she didnt send me any message or call...although i saw her online on msn messenger but i didnt start a convo and neither did she...she just forwaded one of those fun emails 2 me(nothing to mention..lol)...so playas what going in that girl's head and how can i deal with this situation.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Sorry kid - she is not your girlfriend!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

G/f's don't ignore their man unless they are on other men's jocks!!!! Sorry to break the news to you but your girl is disrespecting you because she feels that she has nothing to lose since you two are no longer "an item" as they say!!!
 
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how long have you been dating? what did you say during the romantic chat?
 
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She is disrespecting you here.

Get on it and ask her about it, but don't make the mistake I did w/ my ex-gf and act worked up. Just mention it...let her know that you noticed it, and make sure you are in control.

If this kinda stuff keeps happening though, figure out what the hell is wrong, or just get out period.
 
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we've been dating for about 7 months now...w havent been talking lately alot ...so that night we were romantic
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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listen here kid, say absolutely nothing about this!!!! Do you hear me?? Well, I know you don't hear me in the literal sense but do you hear me in the figurative realm?

She has made up her mind to move beyond the scope of "you" and she ignores your calls and pleas!!!!

Do not call her!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Is that enough exclamation points for you kid????

I said - do not call her!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

When you say "romantic" do you mean "sex" - if so, then she is a hor and is most likely on an another man's jock based on her sudden disinterest in you - a man!!!!!!
 
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