"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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girlfriend hunter... is that wrong??

mattathensga

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K... SO.. I seem to be having this ONE issue... I tend to pull girls that only have BF's... by my reckoning thou, IF you really think about it, MOST Hot chicks already have a BF. and those that Don't, well, they don't have one for a reason... I tend to ONLY be attracted to a girl if she has a BF already, and those that don't, no matter how high they score, I tend to loose interest in... My biggest problem, is my most recent attraction... She is dating one of my GOOD friends/ He treats her like crap, and I actually pay attention to her when all of us hang out... I didn't have an interest in her at first, until she said that by ME talking with her, it was tempting her to leave her BF for me...

There's something I've learned, " NO matter how hot she is, SOmeone, Somewhere, Is SICK of her SHlT." thats where I come in.... if someone is sick of her, I'll take care of her, and take her from him, until I get SICK of her too...

Not really sure why I'm posting this, outside of the Simplistic fact that IT REALLY doesn't matter if a chick has a BF, it DOES NOT prohibit being a DJ.... IF your game is better than that of her BF, You will be the one to pull her.... I've bounced from girl to girl over the past two years, and each one had a BF when I met them... The True complexity of my situation is whether or not to Disregard the "Bro's before Hoes" with this newest one.... Damn she's hot, and I'm not that much of a friend with him... yea, we're good friends, but that really doesn't make me feel the same as what she does to me....
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Some guys don't get it

The reason you feel compelled to post this is because some guys still don't get it: HOT CHICS ARE ALWAYS GETTING LAID unless they are virgins and yet to have been introduced to the pleasures of sex. Outside of this hot chics always have a half dozen guys that are trying to do them at all times plus all the losers who approach them with situational and a$$ kisser openers.

I have found the exact reason women are flakey... because they have too many options. They are so many losers waiting to marry them or just tell them how freakin great they are that they place *no value*, none, zippo, on "yet another nice (read: boring) guy". A nice guy who wants to marry and bore the bejesus out of her has *zero* value except to provide her with money for her kids and to watch them while she screws an alpha male who is fun. Guys who don't go out 3-4 nights a week and make out with chicks constantly do not and will not ever get this. It is outside of their reality, because they have no clue what's really going on.

Very few guys have anywhere near the amount of options that even a female 5 will have. Once you start getting options you will become flakey too. I am seeing so many women right now I can't even remember them all, when they call I can't remember *which* kari or which amber it is any longer. I flake all the time because of this and simply forgetting or not being able to schedule them all in and still practice my sarging skills. I place *no value* on most of these women, because I already have 2 girls that I am very much in love with. The numbers I get mean *jack shyt* and I usually only call them for practice or just to see what would happen unless she just happens to be really likeable.

This might seem like I'm an egotistical jerk but it is all 100% truth from the field. I was pretty freakin AFC at times too. I even cried when women broke up with me at times. I thought they'd feel sorry for me... I thought women were supposed to like sex less than men, I was a romantic that saw the world through a filter. You can break out of that reality but it isn't easy.. it took YEARS of being smacked in the face with the truth... and without seeing the truth you can never really be a very good player.

Women can instantely tell I've got mad inner game and so can guys. I get comments on it all the time. My state is so ****ing strong it wouldn't matter what I said or if I knew a single routine or not because I am in the light. I can see past the bs, and I'm totally unstoppable in the field. I know I can pull any night of the week, and because I know this so fvcking well, women will allow me to pull them. They know I already know, and that makes me one of them.

Unless you're making out with a different woman almost every night, you won't get this post. You will probably think Im bitter or a jerk or don't want to believe that this is real;ly true, that an average looking guy can fvck a different man's gf every single night of the week. Trust me they don't go to the club to dance, fi you really believe that you need need beyond what we can provide.
 

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No i knock chics off of guys all the time.

I think in america that's considered evil or somesh!t.I mean if they guy didn't have his sh!t together it was gonna be only a matter of time.

If they really love there men then they wouldn't cheat on them or leave them now would they?
 

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Cheating isn't wrong

On a logical level most women probably feel cheating is wrong, albiet fewer than in the 50s. However, on an instinctual level women know allowing the man with the best genes to breed her is right. This is why so many women cheat. Evolution dictated that the women who selected the best genes had babies that survived. Thus, the stratgey of cheating on beta male providers with alpha males has became the dominant traits present in all women today. Evolution works way too slowly for this to change in our lifetime or our kids' lifetimes.

When you demonstrate superb inner game, you become this man to her.. even better if it's coupled with preselection.. although if your approach and body language is good enough that is assumed. Hanging out with cool guys also helps.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Re: Some guys don't get it

Originally posted by everywomanshero
The reason you feel compelled to post this is because some guys still don't get it: HOT CHICS ARE ALWAYS GETTING LAID unless they are virgins and yet to have been introduced to the pleasures of sex. Outside of this hot chics always have a half dozen guys that are trying to do them at all times plus all the losers who approach them with situational and a$$ kisser openers.

Unless you're making out with a different woman almost every night, you won't get this post. You will probably think Im bitter or a jerk or don't want to believe that this is real;ly true, that an average looking guy can fvck a different man's gf every single night of the week. Trust me they don't go to the club to dance, fi you really believe that you need need beyond what we can provide.


I feel ya!... I've got so much game, I've left the field.... :)
I've given up on chasing every girl, I still hit on em and try, but unless they are REALLY worth it, I won't give em the pleasure of being with me. I think thats partially whats lead me into the phase of chasing girls that are already in relationships... they tend to have the higher standards I'm looking for, and expect them to want out of me.

I'm going into the Marines very soon, and don't want to waste my time on useless biotches. when I get leave, I want something decent to look forward to, not just another slut. I've had plenty of them in my lifetime, I don't need anymore.... I dedicate my time to the bigger prize, a woman worth my time!!
 

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the Number one Rule is to find a woman that is feeling undesired, and its easy to get her into your world... I've never tried to simply take advantage of a girl, and I've never bagged a girl I didn't have some feelings for... most of that has to do with the fact that I prefer bareback, and it helps me to avoid STDS.... I've had over 130 some-odd partners, and only used ONE condom, and NEVER gotten an STD... either I'm damned lucky, or skilled. I avoid the one night stand crap. but if I do, I prefer to go oral for those!! (Plus There;s simply NO way to get a girl pregnant through her stomach!!) LOL
 

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Originally posted by mattathensga
I've had over 130 some-odd partners, and only used ONE condom, and NEVER gotten an STD... either I'm damned lucky, or skilled.
haha skilled?

i spose not many pre-schoolers would have stds..

jokes :)

i'v had an std and i'v only been with 30-40 women, thankgod it was cureable. ALWAYS wrap it.

Edit: your post is so full of misinformation by the way, i'll let someone else tear it apart because i'm tired.
 

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130 partners Matt? I don't know where you find the time if none of these are ONS.

You really do have to be a chocolate covered man slvt to pull all the chicks you guys speak of.
 
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