"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Girlfriend has a VERY close male friend.

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wish we had matt foley here to give you a pep talk about living in a van down by the river...

anyways.. you really are dragging yourself down by sticking with them. next her and find a new friend.

(didnt see that last post about you getting owned in the back seat of the car)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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you know what she told me about this guy?

she said..hes like my brother to me..i play hit my brothers and tease them. Why cant u understand that hes my brother and best friend..nothing else
 
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Yeah she's just making bullsh!t excuses to you man.

Thankfully now you know this.
 
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What Tha Fukk???!!!

jadeona13 said:
ok..so me and my girlfriend talked about it and she said she would stop...

wow, what a lie

the other day we were all hanging out (me,my gf, the guy and a couple of my cousins)..my GF and the guy when a few feet away from us and were chatting for 20 mins straight..lauhging, giggling, play hitting..

then we all get in the car and me, the guy and my gf are in the backseat. The guy is in between both of us and my gf and him are flirting, touching, singing.. and whenever i said something..my gf would have a 'y r u talkin to me' expression on her face...i even asked her a question and she was like .''idk wtf r u asking me''

then the guy left, she went inside and went to sleep..all without saying a word to me
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UN-FUKKIN-BELIEVABLE!!!! dude!, wtf are yu keeping up with this BS?!. i can't believe you're putting up with sh!t like that!!!

stop askin questions and move on man, this b!tch isn't worth it, can't yu see were this sh!t is going?!! if a skirt were to eva do that to me i'd be the last person she eva tried that sort of slutty behaviour on

im ORDERIN yu to break off ALL contact with her startin now. if she asks yu why and tells u that BS about how she loves you and sh!t tell her she's a disrespecting slut and yu don't have room for her kind. jesus christ i can't believe this sh!t. down here hoes like that get b!tch slapped!
 
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