"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Girlfriend going through my texts!

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Ozel599

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I know she has been looking through as she is at home this afternoon.

A couple of texts came through, I haven't read them properly as I'm at work but have noticed they have disappeared from my notification centre and the little red badge bedside the messages icon has gone.

The only way this can happen is by reading them from my iPad (which is at home), this then changes them on my iPhone as read.

I have nothing at all to worry about there is nothing for her to see and won't be. But I feel kind of pi$$ed about it :cuss:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Epimanes

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Your not married (or so it seems) so I would be a little bit upset. Now if you were married .. You would have no reason to be upset becasue people with nothing to hide dont need to lock their phones and freely let their spouses check up on them to make them feel secure IE: check emails .. know all passwords for each others email accounts and phones etc. Though when they find out over and over again that there is nothing to find .. they will eventually get bored with it and move on.

I leave my Cell open and my emails open for my wife all the time (as does she for me). She can go look at anything she wants to her hearts content and it would not bother me a bit. The only privacy in marriage is the bathroom when your taking a dump. Everything else should be an open book.

So .. in your case. Just say to her that you know she looked .. and if you got nothing to hide from her .. tell her to look all she wants. Dont keep your resentment inside .. give it to her in an amused way. Then move on and dont lock your stuff continue to let her look if you plan on being with her for a long time.

Just my 2cents from personal experience.
 
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You also need to consider that there may be a reason why she is so suspicious of you. If you have not brought that suspicion into your home by your actions then maybe it is her actions that are causing her to be suspicious.

I would sit my wife down have a talk with her and ask to see her phone right then and there.
 
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