Girlfriend going on constant trips by herself

[Alvafe]

The first time she told me she wanted to go back to visit her friends and party , I asked to go (testing her; she knows I don't party or really go out , she said no).

Today she said I can come but I'm sure she knows I'm not serious because she knows I don't party

I would have ended, serious traveling like she is single don't care about invinting you and when you invite yourself she plainly says no I don't want you.

I wonder why you are still with her, start to look for another girl, because that much travel means more she have another boyfriend in florida or several and you are being a fool to even consider paying for her to travel alone even if she had any reason in doing so.

 

[Yewki]

The first time she told me she wanted to go back to visit her friends and party , I asked to go (testing her; she knows I don't party or really go out , she said no).

That's the biggest red flag. She wanted to go party with friends, and instead of being excited that you wanted to tag along she instead says... no? I mean, best case scenario she doesn't like you very much. Worst case, she had intentions of cheating on you and was successful.

 

[_sideways_]

Lol how is that the best case scenario...

Its a no win anyway u spin it.

 

[Jaylan]

She doesn't "feel the need to travel". She feels the need to ride c0ck from out of state. You are just too blind to see it. Wake up.

This.

If you are not traveling with her, Id suspect a young college girl to be sleeping around. Thats part of why young people travel. They want to party and have new experiences with new people. This includes sex.

Ditto on the "Wake up OP".

The first time she told me she wanted to go back to visit her friends and party , I asked to go (testing her; she knows I don't party or really go out , she said no).

Today she said I can come but I'm sure she knows I'm not serious because she knows I don't party

In other words, youre the boring safe bf she keeps at home. Shes a party girl and thus you are NOT compatible. I used to be a party guy, and thus Ive dated party girls. When Ive dated non-party girls, I try to bring them into my world, or I toned down my behavior.

The fact that she wants to leave you out of her escapades shows how little she values you.

Your situation is exactly why I tell guys in their 20s to stick with women out of college. People mature a good deal once they graduate and have to hold down jobs in the adult world. Plus the partying life has become less exciting by then. Ditch the immature college kid and find a woman over 21 whos mature, working, and laid back.

 

[Yewki]

Lol how is that the best case scenario...

Its a no win anyway u spin it.

Exactly. Even the best case scenario is sh*t.