Girlfriend going on constant trips by herself

[topmanbarry]

My girlfriends keeps wanting to go on these constant trips out of state for apparently no reason. Shes only 19, and a student. She isnt financially independant or even stable but seems to keep wanting to travel. I can support her as i am 24 but These trips are pointless to me and seems to me to be some sort of escapism, or some other mental thing. She has no business meetings, no job offers anywhere . She just never likes to stay in one place. She has admitted to having commitment issues and stability issues. She is very jumpy and has been to three different schools in a span of one year.

She went to Cali couple months ago to go to a concert. Last month she wanted to go to Florida to party at Univeristy of miami and university of Florida. Today she tells me that she wants to go to florida to visit an aunt.

Thing is , she barely even talks with the aunt. She dosent even have a contact with the aunt neither. I feel shes using visiting the aunt as a cover up.. She was a student at university of florida and has admitted to having thoughts about wanting to go back .

She said she was going to stay at her friends dorm in University of miami , and just happen to show up at the aunts house randomly which sounds suspicious to me. These trips really have no actual goal and are showing me bad signs. She then starts to attack me by saying she loves to travel. Any honest and blunt inputs guys?

 

[way2smart]

So, you are paying for all these trips?

If you are paying for these trips, she is just using you. Obviously she wants to travel for somebody else's money, who wouldn't, especially if they are that frequent. If she hasn't invited you to any of those trips, you are safe to assume that she got banged by some studs there too.

 

[topmanbarry]

No, i am not. of course not.

 

[topmanbarry]

shes struggling financially but feels the need to keep traveling.

 

[way2smart]

No, i am not. of course not.

If she doesn't keep in contact with her aunt, it it's a major red flag. Check her phone for text conversations or if you know her facebook password do that, that's how you will find the real reason.

Usually when your gut tells you that something is off, it really means something is off.

 

[El Payaso]

shes struggling financially but feels the need to keep traveling.

She doesn't "feel the need to travel". She feels the need to ride c0ck from out of state. You are just too blind to see it. Wake up.

 

[Skyline]

Maybe she likes to travel. Had she invited you along with these trips?

 

[topmanbarry]

I have never paid for her trips. I said I can support her if I thought the trips were legit. She just wants to. She also said that where we get into big argument she wants to book a flight to Florida

 

[Dhoulmagus]

Does she mind if you join her? Does she think you would like to join her in these trips? I'm broke financially, but I like to go on random trips. I plan to drive through every major city in Texas and New Mexico for this spring break. I plan to go to Seattle and Vancouver for the summer. I sorta of invited my girlfriend, but she is welcome to go if she wants too.

 

[YawataNoKami]

Dear Lord..............!!!!!
Salty?

 

[topmanbarry]

The first time she told me she wanted to go back to visit her friends and party , I asked to go (testing her; she knows I don't party or really go out , she said no).

Today she said I can come but I'm sure she knows I'm not serious because she knows I don't party

 

[BrainDamage92]

Well if shes still a party girl and youre all serious'd up then you have no bussiness loving her.

Dont break up with her if you can pull it off of course, keep her, but know that there is more than just a possibility alot of other **** goes inside her vagina so think about this fact and deal with it.

But you need to accept the fact that mentally she is obviously years behind you.

And the other kocks... If there werent any, she would be happy if you suggested to come.

If I went exclusive with a girl and she pulled that kinda stunts Id break the arrangement immediately. Why would she have fun while I cant have some action on the side? Now you can:

1. Break the arrangement - CALMLY

2. Keep it this way and everytime she goes away, have sex with another.

3. Keep it this way and dont do jack **** and get burned.

In option 2 you still get burnt couse youre all like "Damn I shouldve cheated more"

 

[mikey2012]

She not by herself . She going with her new boo... Who is paying... While you sitting at home jacking off

 

[Dhoulmagus]

The first time she told me she wanted to go back to visit her friends and party , I asked to go (testing her; she knows I don't party or really go out , she said no).

Today she said I can come but I'm sure she knows I'm not serious because she knows I don't party

ya if she won't let you go even if you paid for your half than I would dump her ass.

 

[_sideways_]

He forgot to mention she comes back wjth the biggest smile on her face and too tired to fvck until after a week lol

 

[SeymourCake]

She's literally throwing red flags at you, and you're too naive to see what's really going on.

 

[Onion]

In my experience girls who are not happy or content with their life tend to change places, people circumstances etc. Seems to me there's something she's trying to get away from, maybe even from herself if she's constantly on the move. That in itself is a red flag as in unhealthy and content state of being. Forget the usual bs 'riding another c0ck' spouted here unless you have a solid proof.

If she wanted to fvck someone would she spend money and the troubles going to different places? Maybe a single place to meet Joe yes but seems like she's going to different places. She could have done it where she lives.

 

[mangotot]

If that's what she wants to do, so be it. Go find more chicks, have more options.

 

[Maximummax]

She has Sugar daddieeess on the side
If you check her phone messages/logs you wil lsee every thing
You know what i mean

 

[LMFAO]

Sorry to break it to you.

SHE'S GETTING FVCKED.