"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Girlfriend goes bad

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GaryUranga

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Met this chick, got her head over heels over me, it turned into an LTR.

Lasted 9 months, ended lastnight because we "both agreed" that there wasnt any "spark" there anymore, she just didnt feel it anymore.

As soon as I noticed she wanted to go that way I took it like a man and agreed on ending it, no crying no anything. I just went "yeah sparks dead I think it ends here".

Anyways I cant stop thinkign about getting back with her and all that chode **** which I know is temporary.

Does anyone here have any experience on an LTR turning into a dead spark? As in what are the common mistakes when this usually happens?

I wanna learn from it but I fail to pin point the specifics of why it turns into that.
Thanks!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Die Hard

Die Hard

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Don't look for 'closure', that's a DJ rule just like not calling her one day after she gave her number and other rules.

Be strong and move on.
 
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A safe rule is anything you 'feel' like doing to fix the situation, do the opposite.
 
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