"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Girlfriend giving me attitude

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itishe

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My girlfriend went with me back to our hometown for christmas break and towards the end of our stay I began to grow tired of her (just being around her so much). She is now staying at my apartment an hour away from her school until classes start for her next monday.

Thing is I'm getting pretty damn tired of her constant attitude and again just being around her for this long. I plan on kicking her out today, but was curious what you guys believed best way to do it would be?

I felt like telling her she is being a ***** and to go home.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Do what you got to do. Let her know you won't stand for her attitude. I don't know how it is where you live, but here you have to give someone at least a two weeks notice before you can kick them out. I would go double check the laws where you live, but good luck with everything.
 
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Being around the same person constantly can get very annoying if there is a personality conflict. I'm not sure what to say dude, I mean if she's cool when you only see her occasionally and she's into some kind of fantasy **** that you dig, then maybe she's worth keeping around, but if she has few redeeming qualities and only serves to annoy you, then you know what you have to do.
 
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