"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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My girlfirend from Brazil is in town for the holidays. Last night we were drinking, and she admitted to me that not only does she still talk to her ex-boyfriend, but she said that she still flirts with him. Normally, I wouldn't care if she talked to her ex, after all she is in Brazil and I am in the States. But, I have to admit, it bothers me that she said she flirts with him.

So, naturally, I try to get some details. She "says" that he calls her all the time, he calls at 3am, blah, blah, blah. They were supposedly together in 1998. This female talks about marrying me. I care, but not enough that I couldnt drop her. Opinions?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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a test. If she wanted to be with him she probably could, but she isnt. Think nothing of it.
 
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People are the same all over. Don´t take any s**t from her, if she carrys on with her Ex, dump her and move on.
 
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I wouldn't trust her...
She's either playing games, or giving you a heads-up that she may break up with you soon. May also be other options, but I can't think of any.
 
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Tyron said:
a test. If she wanted to be with him she probably could, but she isnt. Think nothing of it.
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He wouldn't know if she is seeing him because her and her ex are in Brazil...
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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