"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Girlfriend dumped me for this guy...

Snowman23

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I learned a lot from this site, and thought my game was pretty strong

make a long story short... we dated for 2 months, things were going great, then she tells me she wants to see other people, out of the blue. I was like "... okay, cool."

Come to find out she wanted this guy. I guess game means nothing when you look like that.
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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are u kidding me? the guy looks like a pig with that nose and scrunched up face

tiny little face and big forehead.. it's nasty.
 

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two months and she is your gf?? I think you might have moved a little fast, but then again my only relationship lasted two months as well (in my defense I dumped her.)
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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People have complex needs that you may not even understand. Some women just got out of bad relationships and want tons of cuddling, other women have serious trust issues and want sex with no affection, some women have rape fantasies while other wmen are only attracted to women. Some men can't stand cheaters, other men want to watch their woman get it on with other people. Some people cre solely about physical appearance, others care almost entirely on having something in common..... There are 6 billon people, I don't spend my entire existance trying to figure out what went "wrong", something works until it doesn't, then I find something else that works better
 

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remotecontrol said:
Ok heres whats wrong with your post...
you got the girl, you tapped that ass, then after 2 months she dumps you
do you see the problem...
you didnt learn one crucial thing about women...dont rely on one.
if you really paid attention to this site you would have seen a common theme from a lot of posters, spin those plates.
if your game was strong enought to get one woman for two months you should have gone and got 3 women during those two months and dated all of them, then when one flakes, you still have the other two.
you probably paid her way too much attention and it turned her off...see if only you have another couple of hoes on the go at the same time this would probably not have happened and if it did still happen you wouldnt give a shi7, but here you are giving a shi7, not cool man. be a player next time not a sucker
repped! very well said.
 

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everywomanshero said:
People have complex needs that you may not even understand. Some women just got out of bad relationships and want tons of cuddling, other women have serious trust issues and want sex with no affection, some women have rape fantasies while other wmen are only attracted to women. Some men can't stand cheaters, other men want to watch their woman get it on with other people. Some people cre solely about physical appearance, others care almost entirely on having something in common..... There are 6 billon people, I don't spend my entire existance trying to figure out what went "wrong", something works until it doesn't, then I find something else that works better
had one like that recently. good post
 
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