"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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stewie

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Im not a big drinker but i drink every once in a while. My girlfriend drinks every time she hangs out with her friends and it kinda bothers me. Im not worried about what she'll do when she drinks because she’s completely into me but i just dont like that she cant have fun with her friends without drinking.

Most of the time she only drinks a little and just gets a little tipsy. But one night we were both at a party and she was so drunk she kept passing out. I had to take care of her that night to make sure she didn't hurt herself. That’s the main reason her drinking bothers me. Shes certainly not an alcoholic though.

The other night i got kinda mad at her for it. We didn't get in a fight but she knew that i was mad. I feel that it was a stupid thing for me to get mad at about because she might think im a hypocrite but i don't feel that i should apologize either.

Should i talk to her about it or just not bring it up again?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Jerky Boi

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Originally posted by stewie
Most of the time she only drinks a little and just gets a little tipsy. But one night we were both at a party and she was so drunk she kept passing out. I had to take care of her that night to make sure she didn't hurt herself. That’s the main reason her drinking bothers me. Shes certainly not an alcoholic though.

Well, from what you've told us, she sounds like she is a little bit of an alcoholic. If she wasn't, it wouldn't be bothering you. If her problems bothering you and you're worried about it, of course you should talk to her about it again. She doesn't have to quit completely if she doesn't want to since it's her decision, but tell her that you want her to calm down a bit and be more responsible. That's what I would do..
 

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i would dump her - i had a girlfriend who sounds just like her..she was so bad i had to take her home in my car and on the way home and she opened the door and fell out of the car at the red light and threw up everywhere. that was the last time i hung out with her.
 

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When she wakes up from another episode, and she asks the inevitable "What Happened?", just tell her she got raped.

We'll see how much she likes getting drunk, then.
 

Capt.Jack Sparrow

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Originally posted by Smooth as Anything
When she wakes up from another episode, and she asks the inevitable "What Happened?", just tell her she got raped.

We'll see how much she likes getting drunk, then.
LMFAO

Yeah go with that, "You just got raped"
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Tooms

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haha i actually pulled that on my last ltr, she had almost gotten raped by a junior a few days b4, haha her older bro kicked the sh*t outta him for that..well neways she got drunk as hell-which i hate cause she might do somethin, she would get hammed-and i was like 'omg, u dont remember? jeremy raped u, ryan held me in the other room' (all the guys i named here r like 17, she and i r 14), she didnt even go near a drink for a long time after that
 

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Originally posted by Tooms
haha i actually pulled that on my last ltr, she had almost gotten raped by a junior a few days b4, haha her older bro kicked the sh*t outta him for that..well neways she got drunk as hell-which i hate cause she might do somethin, she would get hammed-and i was like 'omg, u dont remember? jeremy raped u, ryan held me in the other room' (all the guys i named here r like 17, she and i r 14), she didnt even go near a drink for a long time after that
Your a sick f*ck.

Thats all i have to say.

The master of the margarin cup,

Vincent
 

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talk to her.

she disagrees

dump her.



i would personally just dump her.
 
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