what's the deal with this? sometimes she says she just doesn't get me, as if there's some "other side" of me that she thinks I keep hidden from everyone. It's weird that she thinks that way. I'm a simple man -- I want good sex, a good girl, a good friend, and she does that for me, so what's the deal? Seems like she knows me pretty well because she cooks me meals, ****s great, gives me space for time with the guys... I would say she knows me damn well. should I be more sensitive or some ****?
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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Theres a saying I live by, particularly in situations like this. "Attention gives rise to awareness" Pay attention to the things she says and maybe you will gain awareness as to what is confusing her.