"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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girlfriend dating some other guy

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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comic_relief

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sounds pretty normal to me

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pipe007

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dont even worry. I would only be concerned if she would never date other guys. Feel free to buy her some condoms in case she needs them!!!... you know with the other guys of course... since you are not getting any.
 

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Explain what you mean by dates. I'm seeing a girl now we are not physical but we hang out. She says she has a BF but I've never seen him and she barely mentions him. There are no pics of them on facebook either (Though her status says she's in a relationship). So, is she trying to hide these dates from you? Are things good between you and her? I guess normally most people would say that's not ok (if you can get the hints from the sarcasm of the guys who have responded so far, lol) but I think a lot of times the context of something helps clarify the situation.
For example if you get along with a certain co-worker of the opposite sex (You have a GF) and you take lunch together is it necessarily a bad thing even though some may say it is a date? So, give more details please.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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jafyk

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Maybe then again we should ask if the OP is sure the girl is his GF to begin with. I think some people assume that because they've been F'ing a girl for a period of time that she is now his GF. Did they have the talk etc?
 
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