goodlistener
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is it okey your girlfriend is dating someone else?:woo:
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
girlfriend dating some other guy
- Thread starter goodlistener
- Start date
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
comic_relief
Master Don Juan
sounds pretty normal to me
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jafyk
Master Don Juan
Explain what you mean by dates. I'm seeing a girl now we are not physical but we hang out. She says she has a BF but I've never seen him and she barely mentions him. There are no pics of them on facebook either (Though her status says she's in a relationship). So, is she trying to hide these dates from you? Are things good between you and her? I guess normally most people would say that's not ok (if you can get the hints from the sarcasm of the guys who have responded so far, lol) but I think a lot of times the context of something helps clarify the situation.
For example if you get along with a certain co-worker of the opposite sex (You have a GF) and you take lunch together is it necessarily a bad thing even though some may say it is a date? So, give more details please.
For example if you get along with a certain co-worker of the opposite sex (You have a GF) and you take lunch together is it necessarily a bad thing even though some may say it is a date? So, give more details please.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
jafyk
Master Don Juan
Maybe then again we should ask if the OP is sure the girl is his GF to begin with. I think some people assume that because they've been F'ing a girl for a period of time that she is now his GF. Did they have the talk etc?
5string
Master Don Juan
If your "girlfriend" is dating another guy, she ain't your "girlfriend".goodlistener said:is it okey your girlfriend is dating someone else?:woo: