"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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TheNewGuy

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yeah, some 110 pound loser with no shirt on got a "damnn sexy" comment from my girl yesterday, after he sent a few flirtatious ones her way. i'm going to talk to her about it tomorrow, but in the meanwhile I sent him a message to introduce myself :trouble:

I'm more upset with my girl than with the guy, but I won't hesitate to kick his ass for it. flirting with another guy's girl is just disrespectful.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The Shocker

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that's fvckign bullshiat bro. don't put up with that. Her checking out another guy is ok, nothing you can do about it, just like she can't stop you from checking out other girls. But commenting about it to you is over the line.

This dude's out of line too. How the hell can his body be damn sexy if he's only 110 lbs? That's freaking tiny.

Edit: There's nothing wrong with this guy trying to steal your girl, if he's not your friend. But you can't let him get away with it right in front of you.
 

i am me

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dont let ur girl know it bothers u...not by talkin anyway. i would go up to the dude and let him know wuts up...that you wont hesitate to whoop his ass if he doesnt stop showin off his kindergarten body to ur girl
 

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tell her they look great as a couple and ur ready to give them a take away vcacation in thailand,lol ina funny way and she will realise her insult and come back
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I seriously was feeling to flame on this one but I'm not going to get all negative.

You're being reactive, and a simple Congruence Test like this is throwing you off. Like seriously, who is ****ing her? (I hope you are) So why do you let a little test like this get you in a rage that you want to fight the kid?

It's lame and AFC. Only people with Scarcity mentality act the way your acting. If the kid actually happen to take your girl you should know that you can get another girl.

It's funny how guys with gfs get so needy, jealous, clingy, and everything that an afc would do.

Ask yourself this "If she left me would I be able to go out the next day and find a new woman?" If your answer is no then you need to start being proactive about this and actually go out and learn how to get girls, because once this girl leaves your going to be angry and pissed.
 

THE_ADDMAN

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comment on a few sexy girls to her, and see how she responds :)
 

TheNewGuy

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Snow Plowman said:
I seriously was feeling to flame on this one but I'm not going to get all negative.

You're being reactive, and a simple Congruence Test like this is throwing you off. Like seriously, who is ****ing her? (I hope you are) So why do you let a little test like this get you in a rage that you want to fight the kid?
Hitting on my girl in front of me is disrespectful, thats a good enough reason I think.

It's lame and AFC. Only people with Scarcity mentality act the way your acting. If the kid actually happen to take your girl you should know that you can get another girl.
I could get another girl, but I kinda like this one. Its not like a car.

It's funny how guys with gfs get so needy, jealous, clingy, and everything that an afc would do.
Needy, jealous, clingy, demanding of respect. Funny.

Ask yourself this "If she left me would I be able to go out the next day and find a new woman?" If your answer is no then you need to start being proactive about this and actually go out and learn how to get girls, because once this girl leaves your going to be angry and pissed.
My answer to that is yes, but I'd rather not get in that situation.


So anyways I confronted her about it (in a joking way) and she got the hint that I wasn't happy about it. She got real scared that I was gonna like break up with her and got real upset and apologized a lot.

Problem solved.
 
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