"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Girlfriend cheating? Need your opinions...
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Which of course she said was a joke, haha. I am not laughing...
You know if someone caught me like this, it is exactly what I would say: its a joke, baby! Relax, you have jealousy issues. F$$$$$$$$$ing b1tch!
I still have my apartment for the next week, so I will probly break up for good now and go live in my place.
Any other input is welcome.
Cheers.
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Since you're apartment is still available in your name, you should move back in for a time being. This will help you in any decision process.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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...and the truth is spoken!!!vagrant said:
I was going to add that!~New development! I just went out with the *****/girlfriend last night.
She started talking to 2 guys in front of me, flirting in front of me.!!!
I am drunk right now, so forgive my errors. then she says: I met him, me, in this place, not that he is worth anything.! Sorry, babe I didn't mean that...
what a *****, I said what did yousay? She says nothing just chill. guys laughing at me. Please god, dont let anyone go thru this humiliation!
I leaped over the fence and I was gone, bashed taxi bumper, cops after me, hid in park. ***** is a *****, no doubts now. Guys watch out!!!!
for *****s like these. My heart broken, my **** need revenge, from now on, women just c^m receptacles, dJs, rock on. I am going to sleeep thatnks for you support. God help me! htgank you guys, drunk going to sleep, let this be lesson to all of you.! don't trust the b&tch if she f$cked once.!
Good night, your kind words appreciated., not needed, I am man and I am gonna reign hell on every p&ssy I meet from now on. No mercy, no c&m willl be saved from filling their pu$$sy!
Loive you gyys,
adler out.
avenge me brothers, f^ck every pu$$y you meet, and dont fall in love.!!!
nice job getting away like that. a little extreme but you did the right thingadler321 said:
dont go blaming every woman for this slvts actions. there are tons better women out there than this b1tch. but you have to "screen" them. that's right, take time to know them before you start letting them in your life all at once like that. bring her in gradually, and if she doesnt cut it than get rid of her. moving in after 3 months was a bad idea on your part.
bottom line is you feel in too fast. you guys have only known each other for 3 months and your already living together? not good. personally me and my gf decided that we would never live together unless we were engaged or married, because we have seen wat happens to couples who just dive in like you did.
maybe you should take these guys and my advice and actually find a quality woman, and make sure she's worthy before you giving your all to her.
also keep in mind to minimize your own insecurity. are you sure she's cheating, or are your fears and insecurities telling you that? look at the big picture, if she doesnt have cheater written all over her face than she probably isnt. and if she wants to waste her team cheating than let her, she's only hurting herself. cheating's a huge time commitment. what she did at the club could've been out of spite because you dont trust her.
look at the big picture before making judgments.