"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Girlfriend called me by my best friends name..2x

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jay07

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Last night. she was drunk and we were talking and she called me him.

the first time i blew it off but told her to call me by the right name next time. then 2 minutes later she did it again and I told her I was done talking to her and she started balling her eyes out.

he is my best friend / roommate and I'm not too worried about him and her As I'm pretty sure he's a virgin still. however, every Monday night when I'm working they go out and stop at her friends bar as he's trying to bang her friend. so she was out with him all day.

makes me think she's catching feelings for him or somethin brahs. what y'all think
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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This is one scenario where you do NEED to confront.

I'd say "Why were you calling me xyz ?"

Something that is open ended and makers her have to come up with words(hopefully the truth) to explain herself. If you ask a question like "are you cheating on me with xyz" it allows her to say a simple "no", regardless of the truth.
 
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jay07

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Yeah I mean she was pretty drunk but calling me the wrong name twice is a little odd. both our names start with a j and she hung out with him all day but still.

I don't think their doing anything as I trust them but makes me feel like she's feeling him.
 
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