"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Girlfriend called me by my best friends name..2x

jay07

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Last night. she was drunk and we were talking and she called me him.

the first time i blew it off but told her to call me by the right name next time. then 2 minutes later she did it again and I told her I was done talking to her and she started balling her eyes out.

he is my best friend / roommate and I'm not too worried about him and her As I'm pretty sure he's a virgin still. however, every Monday night when I'm working they go out and stop at her friends bar as he's trying to bang her friend. so she was out with him all day.

makes me think she's catching feelings for him or somethin brahs. what y'all think
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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TheException

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This is one scenario where you do NEED to confront.

I'd say "Why were you calling me xyz ?"

Something that is open ended and makers her have to come up with words(hopefully the truth) to explain herself. If you ask a question like "are you cheating on me with xyz" it allows her to say a simple "no", regardless of the truth.
 

jay07

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Yeah I mean she was pretty drunk but calling me the wrong name twice is a little odd. both our names start with a j and she hung out with him all day but still.

I don't think their doing anything as I trust them but makes me feel like she's feeling him.
 
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