Girlfriend being too nice

[bigneil]

Here's a unique problem on this board. My girlfriend (who is now long distance as I moved 1100 miles away) is being too nice. Texting constantly, calling both my phones to tell me she is buying me gifts and emailing to tell me "she bought it", wanting to talk on the phone every night, wanting hugs. It's destroyed my attraction to her.

Meanwhile I'm out scoring with much hotter women in my new city (in Texas good men are at a premium unlike in Florida where women were all raised at the mall).

She was a great girlfriend, but now she's obsolete. Not sure how to end it but she already paid for a ticket to visit in 2 weeks.

Anyhow it's a complete role reversal from my one-itis. So much so that I now wonder: do you think I might have BPD?

 

[SoSuaveDude]

Maybe not full-blown Bpd, but definitely some "mother issues"

 

[PigAdlemPimp]

SMS her a photograph of one of the hotter babes you've recently fvcked in Texas, if she keeps contacting you, you will have learnt something that only a few will ever learn.

 

[iwanttofight]

you might want to tell her now bro plain tickets are expensive so she can get most of her money back. If u dont want her to come dont aloow her too

 

[ProDJ26]

SMS her a photograph of one of the hotter babes you've recently fvcked in Texas, if she keeps contacting you, you will have learnt something that only a few will ever learn.

:crackup::crackup::crackup::crackup::crackup:

 

[Strelok]

Bigneil whats the problem? thousands of guys would pay to be in your situation.

If you dont want her anymore simply tell her the truth, I mean she did nothing bad to you so she doesnt deserve to be treated poorly.

Its completely fine to dont take any sh1t from women and even manhandle them when they behave poorly but at the same time we should be balanced as well in our behaviour.

Before kicking her out, tell her what she is doing wrong or simply wait till she stop doing that (they usually reset the hamster twice a month), what is the point of complaining about female rude behaviour when we give the same example.

Thats no different from a girl who leave her nice guy boyfriend at home while fking half greece in summer then leaving him cause he call her too often and is "too nice".

 

[bigneil]

Yes Streolok I told her she was acting like the guy from Swingers (which we had recently watched). The one who kept calling the girl over and over.

I told her she didn't need to call to say she texted that she called to say hello. Then I explained an analogy about my own oneitis.

I told her "You need to understand something: you're reminding me of myself... and I can't think of anything worse than that!".