"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Girlfriend at College/Uni

madcrab

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My girl has gone to uni and I don't want her to get interested in other blokes. A lot of them like her and she likes the attention but would never do anything but I wanna keep her interest in me as strong as it used to be.

I need to get back to the way I used to be, more DJ and more exciting. Any suggestions?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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lebRambo

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Firstly, cut out the worry. Why are you worried? If she does stray, you cut her off. Simple as that. At least you have an opportunity to find out whether she is a quality woman or not. A lot of guys don't find out until after they married a girl that she is a ho ;)
 

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LTRs are a pain; maybe you should just dump her right now. How often will you even be able to see her?
 
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