My girlfriend texted me and told me her ex-boyfriend's best friend died in a car crash and she wanted to know if it was ok if she sent a message to him and his family....I don't have a problem given the circumstances, I just thought it was weird she even asked for my permission to be honest. What do you make of the fact that she asked if it was ok?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Girlfriend asks permission to contact ex-boyfriend
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