Hello All,
Two weeks ago i had an argument with my girlfriend. to say for her defend i was total AFC. i was jealous , insecure , suspicious , smothering her.
One of the time we argued i called her a *****! , she told me she forgive me after i apologized but she was very disappointed at me for saying this.
The weekend came , usually she comes to my place after being at another city for school for the whole week (she lives there, renting apartment )
She told me she wants to be alone and its her right. so i honored her request and didn't contact her the whole weekend. on sauterday night i called her and asked her what's going on ? she told me she don't know what's going on with the relationship and she needs time. since then i didn't contacted her.
Monday came and she told me she needs help with her computer , i told her i am very busy with stuff and i will help her next week. she said OK i will take care of this by myself.( she's aware its something needs to be done physically not by remote) . since then till yesterday no contact from her side.
She contacted me again to help her with the computer , i told her listen , please find out someone else to help you from now on because its not OK. sh told me OK , you won't hear from me anymore i promise. to cut all the drama and for her to leave me alone i told her i'm seeing someone and from that moment she started to flip out . cursing me , telling me all the things i told her that i want only her and blah blah blah are lies and i am without any honor . i didn't wait for a second to do this. what she want from me?
Any way i tried to ignore her but she asked me to bring her back all her stuff , i told her she more than welcome to come and take her stuff by herself. she has arms and legs and can drive the car.
Question, i want her back but i can't be her second choice not when she's my first. was this the smart thing to do?
will she contact me again? or will we get back together?
Thanks,
Joe.
Two weeks ago i had an argument with my girlfriend. to say for her defend i was total AFC. i was jealous , insecure , suspicious , smothering her.
One of the time we argued i called her a *****! , she told me she forgive me after i apologized but she was very disappointed at me for saying this.
The weekend came , usually she comes to my place after being at another city for school for the whole week (she lives there, renting apartment )
She told me she wants to be alone and its her right. so i honored her request and didn't contact her the whole weekend. on sauterday night i called her and asked her what's going on ? she told me she don't know what's going on with the relationship and she needs time. since then i didn't contacted her.
Monday came and she told me she needs help with her computer , i told her i am very busy with stuff and i will help her next week. she said OK i will take care of this by myself.( she's aware its something needs to be done physically not by remote) . since then till yesterday no contact from her side.
She contacted me again to help her with the computer , i told her listen , please find out someone else to help you from now on because its not OK. sh told me OK , you won't hear from me anymore i promise. to cut all the drama and for her to leave me alone i told her i'm seeing someone and from that moment she started to flip out . cursing me , telling me all the things i told her that i want only her and blah blah blah are lies and i am without any honor . i didn't wait for a second to do this. what she want from me?
Any way i tried to ignore her but she asked me to bring her back all her stuff , i told her she more than welcome to come and take her stuff by herself. she has arms and legs and can drive the car.
Question, i want her back but i can't be her second choice not when she's my first. was this the smart thing to do?
will she contact me again? or will we get back together?
Thanks,
Joe.
