I have been seeing and sleeping with this girl for 4 months. We have been together every Friday or Saturday night for the past several weeks. I have not had to ask her out in a very long time (there was a long seduction). She does all the asking and she sleeps over willingly.
Today she asked me out for Sunday. Not Friday night, not Saturday night, but Sunday.
She has informed me before that she views us as a couple (I do too, I just don't say it).
I am a little irritated that she has not reserved either this Friday or Saturday night. I had quietly begun to while she did all the chasing. I do not want to be taken for granted and am inclined to say no.
Clearly that is my prerogative, but I do actually want to express my issue above. I feel that if I cannot express my feelings, I do not feel comfortable in being with her. She may have a perfectly reasonable set of other plans, like I believe her parents are taking her to dinner or something like that.
Am I wrong?
Today she asked me out for Sunday. Not Friday night, not Saturday night, but Sunday.
She has informed me before that she views us as a couple (I do too, I just don't say it).
I am a little irritated that she has not reserved either this Friday or Saturday night. I had quietly begun to while she did all the chasing. I do not want to be taken for granted and am inclined to say no.
Clearly that is my prerogative, but I do actually want to express my issue above. I feel that if I cannot express my feelings, I do not feel comfortable in being with her. She may have a perfectly reasonable set of other plans, like I believe her parents are taking her to dinner or something like that.
Am I wrong?