Girlfriend asked about meeting the opposite-secs friends?

[Father Joseph]

So i was leaving from my girlfriends house and she suddenly asked "Whats your opinion on seeing male/female-friends ?" I said to her "Why do you ask? Has some guy asked you out ?
She continued laughingly: " No, but I thought it is good to know your opinion on seeing guy friends like going for coffee same as you have female friends" I said "Lets talk about it later okay." And then I left.

So I am not sure how I should articulate my statement if this question pops out again. On the other hand she has got a 2-3 good male friends and I know them from the same social circle. They all are harmless as some one would say "chodes" and my GF has known the since the age of 7. I get along with those guys well actually no problem.

But I do not accept random guys asking her out or the guy she had a thing with before we got back together (see my previous thread for details)

Feel free to ask questions and please answer quickly

 

[devilkingx2]

do anything you allow her/that she's allowed to do, don't allow her to do anything you can't/aren't allowed to do.

follow that rule in situations like these.

 

[VladPatton]

I wouldn't like it. But asking her to stop seeing some guy she knew since she was 7 is tough. If she is respectful of your relationship, she'd eventually stop. I can't swallow the "men and women can be friends" pill.
Honestly, it would bother me, and I'd provably dump her for itt if it doesn't stop. I know girls too, from childhood, but I don't go with them out while their husbands sit home and jerk off. Why would I??? It's a social rule that girls seem to feel entitled to break.

 

[Stugots26]

Wait a couple of weeks, and then mention your hottest female friend that she knows of or is on your Facebook or whatever, someone who she can see pictures of or who she knows is really hot, and you mention that SHE WANTED to get together with you. See what her reaction is.

 

[RangerMIke]

If she wants to have guy friends there is nothing you can do about it except walk away if it bothers you.

In her mind, If you say you don't like it... then you are either a weak insecure Beta, or a controlling Macho boy.

Could be a test. That's how I would play it. Just say... "That's cool I have female friends too." And never mention it again until she brings it up.