girlfriend argues like a damned republican!!!help.

Rutgers11

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ok so heres my situation, im a senior in highschool shes a freshman, yeah a bit of an age gap but shes more mature than most of the senior girls i know. and she looks about 19 year old. so me and her have been going out for almost 5 months, had bumps and bruises along the way but we were fine. then drama started, (she got the lead in the school play)... so me and her werent getting our "alone time" as much, if at all. drama was all she cared about. and a few days ago, my friend tells me he saw the guy whos playing the male lead in the play getting too close to her... flirting with her like crazy and even putting his arms around her from behind, and her letting him. this was during school by the way, not even at drama. so im pissed all day and then at night she ignorantly asked "whats the matter, babe?" and i just ****ing blew up on her. she claimed it was nothing. the thing is i told her that i felt like shes takin me for granted, cause like i do everything for her, and im not getting "any" in return anymore. so we both got pissed and she said we need some time apart. so now were not talking and im not getting laid. not just that, i actually love this girl. any suggestions on how to get her to want me back? much help would be appreciated.
 

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It's hard to take her back to you.As you say you were always giving,but not taking.You were something like the good doggy of the pretty girl.If she is the leader in this friendship(i'm almost sure)she will not go back to the good guy that's always around her.
And by the way... i think you don't know what means "we need some time apart"
This is indirectly abbreviation of "we brake up! I don't want you anymore".

If I'm wrong I want to see other people's opinions :)
 

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She is young and doesn't want to be tied to a relationship. Your needy outburst and ultimatum were the final nail in the coffin. She wants to explore her popularity with other members of the opposite sex. I suggest you do the same.
 

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GFTOW.

And keep your completely, utterly unrelated and ultimately retarded slags to yourself.
 

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Rutgers11 said:
ok so heres my situation, im a senior in highschool shes a freshman, yeah a bit of an age gap but shes more mature than most of the senior girls i know. and she looks about 19 year old. so me and her have been going out for almost 5 months, had bumps and bruises along the way but we were fine. then drama started, (she got the lead in the school play)... so me and her werent getting our "alone time" as much, if at all. drama was all she cared about. and a few days ago, my friend tells me he saw the guy whos playing the male lead in the play getting too close to her... flirting with her like crazy and even putting his arms around her from behind, and her letting him. this was during school by the way, not even at drama. so im pissed all day and then at night she ignorantly asked "whats the matter, babe?" and i just ****ing blew up on her. she claimed it was nothing. the thing is i told her that i felt like shes takin me for granted, cause like i do everything for her, and im not getting "any" in return anymore. so we both got pissed and she said we need some time apart. so now were not talking and im not getting laid. not just that, i actually love this girl. any suggestions on how to get her to want me back? much help would be appreciated.
If this was me... I'd forget that b^tch and next her. Why you wanna be with a girl who fools around with another guy behind your back!? And the fact that you give her erry thang and she does nothin in return? Give less and get more! But, if you want to try and get her back... Just ignore her until she talks to you first. Show her that you moved on with your life and you don't need her a$$ nemore.
 

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Rutgers11 said:
my friend tells me he saw the guy whos playing the male lead in the play getting too close to her... flirting with her like crazy and even putting his arms around her from behind, and her letting him...she said we need some time apart.
The first part means "i like it when other guys touch me" meaning she is not interested enough in you to remain faithful.

the second part means she wants to split up.

and u still don't know what to do?
 

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Rutgers11 said:
girlfriend argues like a damned republican!!!
Nobody gives two sh!ts about your political views, ass clown.

Rutgers11 said:
i actually love this girl.
So you love a girl who disrespects you blatantly? No wonder you made the above quote.

Rutgers11 said:
any suggestions on how to get her to want me back?
Yeah, leave her the h*ll alone. You've burnt that bridge. Just remember, whatever she did sexually to you, she's about to do 10 times better to the guy that's in the play with her. I'd say your out, pal. Move on, and grow the fukk up.
 

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Nighthawk said:
She is young and doesn't want to be tied to a relationship. Your needy outburst and ultimatum were the final nail in the coffin. She wants to explore her popularity with other members of the opposite sex. I suggest you do the same.

quoted for emphasis.
 
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