"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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...and she's never says anything about it! every time i ask what's wrong she says she doesn't want to talk about it, which really irritates me because what the hell am i supposed to be here for if she can't tell me anything?

i hate all this big secret stuff. and when she goes right around and gets angry at me for not telling her every little thing on my mind is just the most hypicritical thing i've ever seen. i can't stand it!

what do you do to a girl that won't tell you when she's upset? help!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Brandonc662

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X-ecution said:
...and she's never says anything about it! every time i ask what's wrong she says she doesn't want to talk about it, which really irritates me because what the hell am i supposed to be here for if she can't tell me anything?

i hate all this big secret stuff. and when she goes right around and gets angry at me for not telling her every little thing on my mind is just the most hypicritical thing i've ever seen. i can't stand it!

what do you do to a girl that won't tell you when she's upset? help!
I don't see how this is a problem. Usually you cant get em to shut up about their problems :)


but for real big mistake to ask her Whats Wrong. Seems very afc. You need to act as happy and carefree as possible. If she wants to tell you whats wrong then belive me she will. If you act positive and have fun it will make her have fun. Do not let her see that her mood is bothering you. You should be having fun regardless of what she does.
 

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Next her.

She's a passive aggressive baby who you will never ever get the true communication with that is essential to a healthy frustration free relationship.

You'll always be walking on eggshells and controlled by her moods.

If you must put yourself through this crap and punish yourself with a bad relationship though the only semi productive way to respond to passive aggressive behavior is to literally ignore it and when she is bothered and won't tell you what is going on you go right on with your day as happy as can be.

If she would like to communicate like a mature adult with exchanged spoken words in order to resolve the problem you'll be available for it but only after she apologizes for her passive aggressive mood tantrum.
 

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This girl is no good dude. I would say NEXT.
 

Brandonc662

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KontrollerX said:
Next her.

She's a passive aggressive baby who you will never ever get the true communication with that is essential to a healthy frustration free relationship.

You'll always be walking on eggshells and controlled by her moods.

If you must put yourself through this crap and punish yourself with a bad relationship though the only semi productive way to respond to passive aggressive behavior is to literally ignore it and when she is bothered and won't tell you what is going on you go right on with your day as happy as can be.

If she would like to communicate like a mature adult with exchanged spoken words in order to resolve the problem you'll be available for it but only after she apologizes for her passive aggressive mood tantrum.
True but he is perpetuating this behavior by asking whats wrong. She is probably a aw and he is feeding it
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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