"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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...and she's never says anything about it! every time i ask what's wrong she says she doesn't want to talk about it, which really irritates me because what the hell am i supposed to be here for if she can't tell me anything?

i hate all this big secret stuff. and when she goes right around and gets angry at me for not telling her every little thing on my mind is just the most hypicritical thing i've ever seen. i can't stand it!

what do you do to a girl that won't tell you when she's upset? help!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Brandonc662

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X-ecution said:
...and she's never says anything about it! every time i ask what's wrong she says she doesn't want to talk about it, which really irritates me because what the hell am i supposed to be here for if she can't tell me anything?

i hate all this big secret stuff. and when she goes right around and gets angry at me for not telling her every little thing on my mind is just the most hypicritical thing i've ever seen. i can't stand it!

what do you do to a girl that won't tell you when she's upset? help!
I don't see how this is a problem. Usually you cant get em to shut up about their problems :)


but for real big mistake to ask her Whats Wrong. Seems very afc. You need to act as happy and carefree as possible. If she wants to tell you whats wrong then belive me she will. If you act positive and have fun it will make her have fun. Do not let her see that her mood is bothering you. You should be having fun regardless of what she does.
 

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Next her.

She's a passive aggressive baby who you will never ever get the true communication with that is essential to a healthy frustration free relationship.

You'll always be walking on eggshells and controlled by her moods.

If you must put yourself through this crap and punish yourself with a bad relationship though the only semi productive way to respond to passive aggressive behavior is to literally ignore it and when she is bothered and won't tell you what is going on you go right on with your day as happy as can be.

If she would like to communicate like a mature adult with exchanged spoken words in order to resolve the problem you'll be available for it but only after she apologizes for her passive aggressive mood tantrum.
 

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This girl is no good dude. I would say NEXT.
 

Brandonc662

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KontrollerX said:
Next her.

She's a passive aggressive baby who you will never ever get the true communication with that is essential to a healthy frustration free relationship.

You'll always be walking on eggshells and controlled by her moods.

If you must put yourself through this crap and punish yourself with a bad relationship though the only semi productive way to respond to passive aggressive behavior is to literally ignore it and when she is bothered and won't tell you what is going on you go right on with your day as happy as can be.

If she would like to communicate like a mature adult with exchanged spoken words in order to resolve the problem you'll be available for it but only after she apologizes for her passive aggressive mood tantrum.
True but he is perpetuating this behavior by asking whats wrong. She is probably a aw and he is feeding it
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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