"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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nero999

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Hi guys, so I have been in the community for a while and got ok at getting girls. Had a few one night stands then got one girlfriend, we split up after 2months as she said she wasn't feeling like she wanted to see me all the time anymore.

I was upset at first but moved on pretty quick, one week later I was on to the next girl who I have been seeing 4 months now. Things are going good but I was wondering if there are any good tips out there on how to act and what to do now. We were speaking tonight and I said that sometimes i think she can be a bit blunt and she said that she thought i was too emotional sometimes and that i should strap on a pair!!

I do like her alot but at the moment i feel like she has all the power which is obvs a bad thing, in a way i feel its her gaming me! any tips on how to reverse this would be good! thanks
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Kbomb

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uh, i think she had it right. Strap on a pair. She is also done with you.
 

vatoloco

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nero999 said:
...and she said that she thought i was too emotional sometimes and that i should strap on a pair!!
Maybe you should listen to her...
 

WTID

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Have fun, when your out talk to other women. Interact with her with humour, if you feel she has the upper hand in the relationship it just means you are more needy of her than she is of you .
 

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Sounds like a youngin' kinda thingie - how old are you, OP?

YOU NEED TO BECOME A MAN.

That means, stop coming across as NEEDY, EMOTIONALLY INVESTED, AND CARING TOO MUCH. Learn to walk away when they exert even the slight gesture of disrespect or bad behavior.

You obviously are not doing TOO bad considering you can bring in the women (well, you could be a 5 bringing in HB3 or HB4, but who cares at this point).

You have not learned the art of keeping them without losing respect and love for yourself. Do more reading around here, you'll get brainwashed eventually.

Good luck,

Exodus
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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