"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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nero999

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Hi guys, so I have been in the community for a while and got ok at getting girls. Had a few one night stands then got one girlfriend, we split up after 2months as she said she wasn't feeling like she wanted to see me all the time anymore.

I was upset at first but moved on pretty quick, one week later I was on to the next girl who I have been seeing 4 months now. Things are going good but I was wondering if there are any good tips out there on how to act and what to do now. We were speaking tonight and I said that sometimes i think she can be a bit blunt and she said that she thought i was too emotional sometimes and that i should strap on a pair!!

I do like her alot but at the moment i feel like she has all the power which is obvs a bad thing, in a way i feel its her gaming me! any tips on how to reverse this would be good! thanks
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Kbomb

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uh, i think she had it right. Strap on a pair. She is also done with you.
 

vatoloco

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nero999 said:
...and she said that she thought i was too emotional sometimes and that i should strap on a pair!!
Maybe you should listen to her...
 

WTID

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Have fun, when your out talk to other women. Interact with her with humour, if you feel she has the upper hand in the relationship it just means you are more needy of her than she is of you .
 

GotED?

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Sounds like a youngin' kinda thingie - how old are you, OP?

YOU NEED TO BECOME A MAN.

That means, stop coming across as NEEDY, EMOTIONALLY INVESTED, AND CARING TOO MUCH. Learn to walk away when they exert even the slight gesture of disrespect or bad behavior.

You obviously are not doing TOO bad considering you can bring in the women (well, you could be a 5 bringing in HB3 or HB4, but who cares at this point).

You have not learned the art of keeping them without losing respect and love for yourself. Do more reading around here, you'll get brainwashed eventually.

Good luck,

Exodus
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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