"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Reading this thread made me kinda ill. Goddam women. So flakey :/
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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TheBucketOfTruth

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horaholic said:
I dumped this chick, after she casually mentioned that she took a shower with one of her guy friends, 'but nothing happened.' Yet, I am the one who broke HER heart. You gotta love woman logic!
Wow that's a new one on me. Surely a new low. And for her to be the one to bring it up, that says she had some sort of agenda.
 

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Just read this thread – Thanks to logic Players link.

This chick has some serious issues – She takes victim hood to a whole new level.

I pitty the poor sap who ends up with her.

No really!

Also this chick has structured this whole thing where the OP is the bad guy – Classic chick dumping technique – This is an AFC chick in all its glory – too spineless to do the right thing – so they structure the break-up to be the guys fault – This from the off-set was ‘text book’ AFC chick break up –

OP did well, well done mate if your reading this.

This chick with her many excuses was clearly a women drowning in her victim-hood – the amount of excuses she used and the way she handled this after the break up – tells me 100% this chick Is a total head case.

You dodged a bullet.

Also about 'did this chick cheat'?

It does not matter – but if I had to state yeh or nay –

I’d say 95% chance she was riding some other mans 3rd leg – and that is clearly pointing to the Ex BF of this chick.

I’d put money on it – I’d actually stack money on that the Ex BF came back on the scene – they had a thing – but the Ex BF was playing her like she was playing you – hence you where the ‘safe’ option.

Remember these lessons learnt from this chick – life lessons are the best – If your GF starts acting like this girl – you have problems.

A DJ would knock her to the curb – an AFC would go out and buy her s**t.
 

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C'mon now you should've known what to do from the start. This girl is too immature in every sense of the word to survive a long term relationship with you. You have other options -- aren't they better than her?

I can expect this girl to freak out over the smallest things. If a couple of tough weeks at work can set her off that she quits on her relationship what's going to happen when something truly important comes up?

I look at how people react to small things to gauge how they react to important things. Nothing bothers me unless it's truly important; I let the trivial things slide. If a girl is always using the trivial things (the stuff that happens every week) ruin her day, she's either a drama queen or immature.

She may not have done anything wrong to you, but as the logical player asked (though I'm sure he has different conclusions): why do you have [this girl] as your girlfriend?


Finally I think you need to learn how to be an ******* more. It works great for situations where you shouldn't be taking anybody seriously, like when she blames you for the actions of your friends. Jesus Christ....

Run. Run far away.
 
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