"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

Girlfriend acting different

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

P

perseverance

Guest
TheBigFish said:
Ouch, rereading it I really see your point. I feel like im going to stick with it to see if things will turn around and if not then I will have no probelm throwing it on the scrapheap
You can stick with it all you like, the ship is sinking and you're going down with it.

I'd jump ship as soon as possible, this girl is not at all interested in you and you can fight tooth and nail to save this relationship, but your effort will be futile, because the relationship is dead and cannot be revived.
 
Top