"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Girlfriend....?

I’ve just had one of those weeks! My girlfriend who I’ve been going out with for about 7 months, has been starting to get on my nerves, I thought she was going off me, but apparently not!

She’s really intelligent (much more than me), and got higher grades at school (all A*’s), so is applying to Universities’ such as Cambridge. I won’t be but am applying to still some top otheruniversities’, but all she goes on about is how clever she is, her exact comment was ‘oh, people LIKE YOU don’t need to apply to University yet’ (for Cambridge you have to apply earlier than normal universities’, and she just like puts me down all the time. She’s just really patronising, and the smallest little things that she does are just starting to get on my nerves, for example, I’ll see her when I have a break, but she’ll say she’s busy and stuff, so we spend very little time together, yet when we next meet up and go away for the weekend, she says we're great? what do i do?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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ralf6655 said:
Girlfriend....?

I’ve just had one of those weeks! My girlfriend who I’ve been going out with for about 7 months, has been starting to get on my nerves, I thought she was going off me, but apparently not!

She’s really intelligent (much more than me), and got higher grades at school (all A*’s), so is applying to Universities’ such as Cambridge. I won’t be but am applying to still some top otheruniversities’, but all she goes on about is how clever she is, her exact comment was ‘oh, people LIKE YOU don’t need to apply to University yet’ (for Cambridge you have to apply earlier than normal universities’, and she just like puts me down all the time. She’s just really patronising, and the smallest little things that she does are just starting to get on my nerves, for example, I’ll see her when I have a break, but she’ll say she’s busy and stuff, so we spend very little time together, yet when we next meet up and go away for the weekend, she says we're great? what do i do?
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Tell her to shut the fyck up next time she talks you like that...and then when she asks why u say that? explain it to her? say look I dont like ur attitude or bullshyt you put on me..I dont need that crap...and if she doesnt like it....then move on!!!
 
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:confused: What i can say is that she is testing you (just like most girls in this planet)but damn!!! not even me" who knows when a girl tests me" can deal with sh!t like this too..even if i can find my way around...fvck.... and " yes" some of "her girlfriends might be giving her some of this advice"....and all they are doing is giving her the wrong ideas of keeping u around... i dont know what you can do

"My idea!" maybe bust her little test every time you might see it coming or you can call it off when ,you start feeling like you cant handle her playing around with your emotions..:) ..:eek: ...:mad:




BY THE WAY YOU WRITE IT, IT SEEMS TO ME LIKE YOU DONT KNOW WHERE YOU STAND WITH HER
 
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:confused: What i can say is that she is testing you (just like most girls in this planet)but damn!!! not even me" who knows when a girl tests me" can deal with sh!t like this too..even if i can find my way around...fvck.... and " yes" some of "her girlfriends might be giving her some of this advice"....and all they are doing is giving her the wrong ideas of keeping u around... i dont know what you can do

"My idea!" maybe bust her little test every time you might see it coming or you can call it off when ,you start feeling like you cant handle her playing around with your emotions..:) ..:eek: ...:mad:




BY THE WAY YOU WRITE IT, IT SEEMS TO ME LIKE YOU DONT KNOW WHERE YOU STAND WITH HER
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I disagree, more like DISRESPECT than test.

Dump this chick dude. I mean honestly, would you want to hang around a guy that told you that he drove a bmw, has a masters in this and that, and makes $30,000 more than you and he brags about it all the time? NO!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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That is class "A" disrespect right there.

I wish I could say it was a test, but, you guys have been going out for 7 months, if she's ragging on you and trying to put you in inferior positions 24/7, she ain't your girl man.

No one, guy, girl or alien should have to put up with that crap.

If she can't drop the superiority complex pretty damn fast, you need to drop her lightning quick, before she mutates into a pro-feminism activist or something.

No seriously, you're better than this woman. Either she bucks up her ideas or you show her the door.
 
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Tell her to shut the fyck up next time she talks you like that...
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I second that .:trouble: .I've had dealing with these Oxbridge candidates . . .ANd take no sh*t from them as they tend to be a little upper minded . . .Some of them would sell a piece of their ass to get to these places . .

. . .So:kick:
 
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